will you hide anything to lover?
By Shineveramya
@Shineveramya (530)
India
August 12, 2010 2:49pm CST
Sometimes it is goodto hide something from lover. I got this advice from many of my friends. But i cannot implement this in my love life. I cannot keep anything inside my heart. After woke up, till go to bed, i'll tell to my lover. What you think?
Which is better to lead happy life?
5 responses
@Shineveramya (530)
• India
18 Aug 10
Yes. I prefer the same. I feel relax if i dont keep anything secret in my heart. And he'll also trust me more.
@wintersonata (46)
• Indonesia
15 Aug 10
it depends on what to tell or what to hide. so, it is personal. it is good for some people, doesn't mean it will also be good for the others.
so, I think each person will have their own point of view on this issue.
personally, I believe not all things to be told or revealed. so it depends on how the person chooses or thinks about some certain things. if he / she is okay to tell the significant other about certain things, that it will lead happier life, then my suggestion is to just do it, on their own risk.
@Shineveramya (530)
• India
16 Aug 10
You're absolutely correct. We know well about him/her. So we can guess what impact it'll be if we tell some matter. So depend on this, we can decide whether to tell that thing or not.
@czanwell_30 (717)
• Philippines
13 Aug 10
I will not hide anything from my husband because truthfulness and honesty should be in a relationship to make it lasts. I don't want him to think of me negatively once he find out that I'm having a secret on him. It's nice to have a relationship wherein there is trust.
@Shineveramya (530)
• India
16 Aug 10
Yeah Czan! If we hide anything from him and later he found out, it'll be bad for our life. He'll loss trust and it'll affect our relation ship badly.
@hotwheels20 (400)
• India
13 Aug 10
Nope, i never hide any thing to my lover. I do share every thing and he is very helpful usually when i am in trouble. Lover is only meant for sharing all our happiness and sorrow. So why to hide, i speak out every thing. And he also does to me.
@Shineveramya (530)
• India
16 Aug 10
Yeah Hotwheels. If we share everything to him, will feel relax and will get good solution for our problems. And also he'll get chance to know fully about us.
@babz02 (250)
• Philippines
12 Aug 10
Nope, I never hide anything from my girlfriend, I always tell her things, even if it means that we'll end up fighting. It has it's advantages, by doing that, you'll free yourself from being doubted and at the same time, build an unwavering trust, which I believe is essential. After all, If i'm going to spend the rest of my life with her, it is best that she knows everything about my life. =)
@Shineveramya (530)
• India
12 Aug 10
Yes. We feel relax by telling about worries. We'll feel more comfortable if we're open minded with lover. So that he/she will trust us too. Loyalty is important in love.
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