Boyfriend or bagfriend

Singapore
August 13, 2010 10:00am CST
On the streets, do you see boys carrying handbags for their girlfriend? If you saw one, is it an act of considerate, caring or simply disgusting, weird? Girls: Do you ask your boyfriends to carry your handbags? Boys: Do you like to carry your girlfriend's handbags?
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7 responses
• Portugal
13 Aug 10
ahah i think thats sweet that the guy carry his gf handbag^^ whats wrong with that? thats just a gentle gesture of them^^ i dont think that most part of girls ask them to do that but they offer themselves to do it^^ what is very sweet. anyway why you ask this? do your gf ask you to carry her handbag? also if guys dont like to carry it they must say it to their girls and dont criticize them^^
• Singapore
19 Aug 10
I don't have a girlfriend, whatsmore, I will ask her whether does she wants me to carry her bag instead of her asking me to carry her bag.
@mcaquino (60)
• Philippines
13 Aug 10
Hahaha...just showing their sweetness..
@elmiko (6630)
• United States
13 Aug 10
i don't think there's anything disgusting or weird about it. i think its just be kind.
• Philippines
13 Aug 10
well I don't really ask my boyfriend to carry my bags so he would look funny. He just wanted to carry it for me. It is one way of showing me his sweetness and consideration and it adds to my love points for hi, Imagine if you are carrying something heavy. Can you imagine it while you and your boyfriend walk in the street. It's embarrassing to see that your boyfriend doesn't care. It's really a turn off!
• Canada
13 Aug 10
I see guys like that considerate. I like guys who don't care what others are thinking. My boyfriend has carried my bags for me before, he's carried my purse too. A lot of people stared at him, but he really didn't care. I don't think I've ever asked him to carry anything, he just takes it as if its his job to carry my stuff. I'm sure girls don't mind this. It just shows they have a caring boyfriend.
@babz02 (250)
• Philippines
13 Aug 10
That is a gentleman's way of showing he is caring for her. I carry my girl's bag anytime she ask's me to. But if she doesn't, I still offer to carry it. I think girls appreciate this simple gesture.
@natnickeep (2336)
• United States
13 Aug 10
I think it shows that a man is a man. He doesn't care what others think. He is being considerate to his girlfriend or in my case wife. I have 2 kids so I don't know if this makes a difference. But when we go to the pool, I don't like taking my purse or handbag in the bathroom or anything else for that matter, cause of germs. He sure is a sweet man and stands outside the bathroom holding all of our towels and my purse. They know it's not his. It doesn't make him gross or girly or anything else. Now if he was holding it the whole time through a mall or store or walking down the street I think that would be different. That would maybe mean his woman is trying to make him look weak or whipped or however you would like to call it. I wouldn't do that to him.