How to end a relationship?

@asxenon (1440)
Malaysia
August 14, 2010 2:44am CST
Many times, a relationship would not work out the way we want it to be. Is there a way to end a relationship without hurting the other party? Found from this site the steps to follow: http://thinksimplenow.com/relationships/how-to-end-a-relationship/ 1. Clarify 2. Self Honesty 3. Setup Meeting Time 4. State of Compassion 5. The Meeting 6. Be There 7. Don't take anything personally 8. Love Them 9. Fully Express Emotions 10.Multiple Meetings 11.Be Available 12.Space 13.Relinquish Guilt
2 responses
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
14 Aug 10
You can never end any relationship without hurting someone or getting hurt yourself. The only way is to be honest and straight forward. That will hurt, but it is better than lying to get out of any relationship. TATA.
@asxenon (1440)
• Malaysia
14 Aug 10
I agree that it hurts to break up with someone you love. Anyway, if the person you love doesn't really love you, ending the relationship is still the best option to have :D
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
14 Aug 10
If someone don't love you, sweetie, it is better to let go.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
14 Aug 10
I find the best way it's slowly. Talking about the things one is unhappy, giving a clue that the relation is over. When the other understands, its time to get into the break up talking, but not something that both are gonna do tomorrow, just talk. In one month things can become preatty easier, cause it's a pain that both are prepared to pass through.
@asxenon (1440)
• Malaysia
14 Aug 10
Sometimes, seeing people break up do hurts. I know a few friends that were in relation for many years but finally broke up... to us outsiders, we will find it quite a pity... Anyway, we cannot change fate, maybe they are not meant together.