if you were young and your bf too and you found out he has a decease would you

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Portugal
August 15, 2010 5:26pm CST
hi guys^^ if you guys found out that your bf or gf have a decease would you leave him? me i wouldnt for sure. im asking this bcs it happens some people when see their bf or gf is sick they leave them. for me this is a stupid attitude and i dont understand those people. i rather die than left my bf if i had one and he had a decease. i wouldnt do this. what you guys think of this? i cant imagine how hurting it must be for those that are left :(
5 responses
• India
15 Aug 10
You did not mention if it is a disease, which is curable or not curable. You also did not mention if the disease is infectious or non-infectious. Let us assume he or she has deadly diseases like AIDS or HIV. Then I do not think that I should stick to the person for the rest of my life knowing that I would be risking my own life if I do so. If I happen to marry the person then I would be risking the life of my children too. I don't think I am prepared for that kind of sacrifice.
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• Philippines
16 Aug 10
Yeah I think so. If he's having a sexually transmitted disease for sure I will leave him because out of respect and being dismayed for what he has become so he got that kind of disease. I may sound so prejudice but it is the truth, that I thought I've known him but shockingly he got that kind of disease and how did he get that?!!! There's no way I'm staying!
• India
17 Aug 10
sweetloveforeve, I respect your conviction. Once we convince ourselves ourselves that we love someone, it becomes a conviction, and that conviction later convicts us.
• Portugal
16 Aug 10
i wouldnt leave him anyway^^ sometimes is not people fault that they have that decease so i would still not leave him^^ sure we would have to have more careful for me to dont catch it also but i wouldnt leave him bcs of it^^
• India
16 Aug 10
Just like others said...it all depends on the situation viz. kind of disease and nature of it, person responsible for it... If it's an uncanny situation then for sure I will be by her side...
• Portugal
16 Aug 10
i mean any decease^^
• United States
15 Aug 10
I wouldn't leave just because of that because it would be cruel of me to do such act. Well those people you don't understand are thinking in a way that will benefit them in the long run.
• Portugal
16 Aug 10
yes you are right^^ we must not leave the person bcs a reason like that^^
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• India
17 Aug 10
Hi dear, Your question has some hidden facts. You didn't open the nature of decease. As you know, there are several type of deceases and many are curable and some are still dangerous. In case of dangerous disease, you know, it is dangerous and may lead to loss of the person also. And also, such diseases have its own reasons of origin. If the reasons for the disease are such a one, I think there is no matter leave the person may be girl or boy. Also, in this case, you are taking a risk of your own life, which people don't prefer to accept. And, a disease is a disease which requires treatment. Most of the disease can be treated with medical help and only due to the reason; there is no need of break apart. But someone is going for a new relationship, and they want to continue it is better to have a prior check up and go for the treatment before getting into the affair or relationship. This will save 2 different life. Also, knowing that a person has a disease for a long time and getting into a relationship means they are hiding the fact and purposively involve into it. In such case, you can easily avoid the partner only on this ground. Love and affection are different. Also, now-a-days, it is advised that if you want to go for an affair, have such discussions prior to go more in detail. Normally we won't like to discuss these things. But for a healthy relation in this world, such things are mandatory now, and if we do now, a healthy tomorrow can be maintained. So, leaving the partner is not the issue, if you have a better starting, you can escape this stage before you start running. Regards, Thank-s
• Philippines
16 Aug 10
I just wanna know what kind of disease? Because it depends.