Are Your Craft Gifts Always Appreciated? Or. . .

@Aurone (4755)
United States
August 16, 2010 2:19pm CST
do you sometimes get a response from the receiver which is less that positive? I know we are all crafting for Christmas and such and I just wondered if your gifts were always well received. I hate when I give a crafted gift (as it takes me a long time) and it is never used or the person doesn't like it. It so disappointing for both of us, they think you gave them a crafty gift to save money and you think they don't appreciate the time, effort and love that went into making their gift. This has happened to me a couple of times, and I haven't given those people anymore craft gifts. What is your experience with this? And would you like to receive a homemade or craft gift from a friend for Christmas or your birthday?
12 responses
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
16 Aug 10
sometimes, it really depends on the recipient. most of my hubbys relatives (that we buy presents for) though are snobs and only like brand name (expensive) stuff.
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@Aurone (4755)
• United States
16 Aug 10
I know some people like that. If it isn't insanely expensive then they think its no good. People like that need to remember how to appreciate the simple and thoughtful things in life.
• United States
16 Aug 10
I personally love a homemade or handmade gift. I find it is usually more thoughtful than like a gift card or something like that. I make a lot of homemade chocolates around the Holiday times, and as far I know they are always appreciated. If someone makes you feel bad about a gift like this, I would stop giving them gifts period, because they are obviously spoiled and selfish.
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@Aurone (4755)
• United States
17 Aug 10
True. All my co-workers seem to appreciate the chex mix and homemade bread that I gave out last year. Its friends that I no longer have that didn't like the embroidery work or craft items that I made. Most people think it is wonderful to get something unique and handmade.
@kukueye (1759)
• Malaysia
17 Aug 10
i don like to made craft gifts because don have the skills or the talents or the time.I rather go around the house fixing stuffs and also do gardening like weeding and cutting the grass or applying weed kills or putting anti dengue poison or declogging the drains and such to prevent mosquito breeding and also floods.If people give me craft gifts i will cherish it i guess, put into glass cabinet for all to see.haha.
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@Aurone (4755)
• United States
18 Aug 10
Sounds like you have other obligations or hobbies besides crafting. I would rather do my craft then a lot of things. I rent an apartment so I don't have a yard to worry about nor do I have to fix things so that frees up some time for me to make my crafting gifts.
@ElicBxn (63252)
• United States
16 Aug 10
I would love it, but since I'm the crafty one in the family, I'm the one always giving. However, because I really do consider what the person wants, and likes, I have been pretty lucky with the gifts being appreciated...
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@Aurone (4755)
• United States
17 Aug 10
Good for you. I do pretty well. I try not to give bookmarks to non-readers and things like that, except one of my friends wanted one anyways cause everyone else had one, even though she doesn't read. lol. And most of the people I am around right now and older and appreciate stuff like that which is why I am stitching like mad to get all the Christmas gifts I want to do done.
@jillhill (37354)
• United States
16 Aug 10
Maybe the fit wasn't right for them. My daughter gave me something homemade a few years ago and it just wasn't anything I would use. I do alot of crafts myself as gifts. I haven't had any that I know of that people don't like or won't use as I can tell by the look on their faces when they open it....it does take alot of time and money to do something special for someone. They should all be appreciated.
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@Aurone (4755)
• United States
17 Aug 10
I can understand that, and as crafters we need to be sure we give our friends and family gifts they can use. I am glad all your gifts have been well received.
@TheCatLady (4691)
• Israel
16 Aug 10
I know a few people like that. They don't understand that crafts take many many hours to make. I'd rather just buy those ingrates something cheep and edible and be done with it.
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@Aurone (4755)
• United States
17 Aug 10
I hear ya. Russell Stover candy boxes work well for that. It usually cheap at Christmas, already wrapped and decent candy.
• United States
17 Aug 10
It depends on what kind of gift it is. If its creative and thoughtful yes, but if its just effortless and cheap and pointless than i'm kind of offended. It would've been just fine with a card.
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@Aurone (4755)
• United States
18 Aug 10
The gifts I craft are never effortless and cheap. Sometimes it cost me more to craft something then to buy it especially when my time is considered. But I agree, if it is something just thrown together, then it is not very nice to get but I am mainly talking about nicely crafted gifts that people don't appreciate because if they don't craft then they don't know how much time and effort goes into something like that.
@jugsjugs (12967)
16 Aug 10
I like to make cards aswell as give people cards.I have a few cards that i have made ready for christmas,which people like to buy off me for their friends aswell as their relations,so this year i am ahead rather than behing,which is really great.I also make other greetings cards and i also make them for friends when they need a card for their friends birthdays.It seems that people prefer hand made cards as they always look more expensive.
@Aurone (4755)
• United States
18 Aug 10
Cards are nice. It sounds like everyone loves and appreciates your cards. You must make very nice cards. Happy Crafting.
@Angelgirl16 (2171)
• United States
17 Aug 10
Hi Aurone, If I were to give a crafted gift to someone, I would know if that person would like what I have crafted for. That is because I would probably know the taste for gifts that person would or would not like. Knowing the personality of the people I give gifts to saves me time and embarrassment for both the giver and receiver of the gift. Personally, if I were to receive a gift from a friend or loved one that I did like, I would never be so rude by saying to the giver, "I don't like your gift." The polite thing to do would be to accept the gift with appreciation, even if you were never going to use it. If I were the give of a crafted gift that I had take time to make, to a special person and they didn't like it, of course I would feel disappointed but I would not bother giving them another gift, if all I did was make crafted gifts.
@calai618 (1773)
• Philippines
17 Aug 10
Yes! :D I am actually known as the artistic type since I was very little and people around me would really expect creative gifts from me. Always hand-made and well-thought off! It was a nice feeling. recently though, i only get to make stuff to give away on fewer occasions unlike before.
• United States
17 Aug 10
I like crafts big time actually right now i am working at home wherein i apply to a company i they will send me materials to be assembled and i am doing it now to earn some money. So i knwo how it feel to make craft it needs time and patience coz it is not easy pal. THats why i am so appreciative when someone give me a crfat gift coz i know they spend tiema nd effort to make that gift so thaty they can give it to me.
• Canada
16 Aug 10
I think it depends on your relationship with the person sometimes. If they love you unconditionally they would appreciate any gift from you. I don't understand why people expect you to pay mounds of cash for their gift. You actually have to buy the materials for your craft anyway, and you have to put so much work and thought into it. While with other gifts you could just be picking them up last minute while you're on the way to their birthday get together..
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@Aurone (4755)
• United States
17 Aug 10
I usually find it is acquaintances or friends with which you are not especially close that don't like the handmade items or family that maybe gets tired of them after a while.
@dcollins (16)
• United States
17 Aug 10
I do like to receive crafted gifts when they are made especially for me or in my taste. It would have to be someone who knows me rather well. I'm sure many people are gifted things that they personally would not have picked out for themselves and then they feel they were just gifted it because it was the easiest and cheapest thing for the gifter to give. Overall, I think its the thought that counts and I appreciate receiving something that I know took someone a while to create or put together.