matters of the heart

I think it is true that God has a match for us somewhere out there. Well, you can set some "standards" but then again when you really find the one, it won't matter. Love is all about accepting the other person for who/what he/she is.

This maybe the reason why I reached 33 years old before I got married. I set a standard for a girl that I'm going to proposed for married but none of them passed. Alot of girls came into my life but I considered them as waste of time. Indeed, I encounter 3 girls who was the one proposed me for marriage but I refuse because my basis for it was not meet. Until I realize and based also from friends advices I make a decision to got into marriage without any qualifications. I was married last February 06, 2010 and most of my friends surprised because it was not know to them. My wife understand also the situation that in the first place we are stranger to each other with respect to love. We are building a happy family that full of love and we are now on the process of it. At the beginning no love involved but later on we felt different and I realized that this the love they mean. I love my wife now and she also love me. We understand each other although at the very beginning we always quarrel because of attitude difference. I think it's normal to the newly couple who are on the stage of adjusting each other.