Crush on friend's partner.

Mauritius
August 19, 2010 3:29am CST
I dont know if this is common , but have this happen to you having a crush on your friend's bf or gf or even wife/husband.. How would you handle this situation , would you be able to look into your friend's eyes specially if he/she has always confide in you...And how long do you think you will be able to hide this situation?
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@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
19 Aug 10
If I was the one with the crush I would not share my feelings with my friend because it would be pointless to hurt her feelings considering that my feelings would never be acted upon. I would have to come to terms with the fact that my friend’s partner is off limits to me and suck it up...If the situation was the other way around and my friend confessed to me she had feelings for my husband I would have to talk to her enough to figure out what she planned to do; a real friend would stay away from another’s husband!
• Mauritius
19 Aug 10
You know actually there is no real friend as such , as you cant know what your best friend can do at your back...
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• India
9 Oct 10
Well my friends have crush on my girlfriend but its not their fault it's the human nature to fall for a beautiful girl...
• Mauritius
19 Aug 10
Having simply a crush on someone does not mean that you are going to have an affair with him. It is hard to suppress feelings because we usually don't have much control over it. I think i would keep it for myself so as not to hurt my friend.
• Mauritius
20 Aug 10
I think these kind of crush occur because we see some features in our friend's partner that our own partner lacks. I think there is nothing wrong in it as long as it is temporary and harmless.
• India
9 Oct 10
The best solution would be stay away.Its best to save the faith and loyalty our friends have in us. So we could find better interests to keep our mind away or better still would be to find a partner better than her or him