over and over again!!

Yes that is really love since you can still tolerate his wrong doings. Everybody has that feeling even their partner made mistakes for so many times they are still forgiving it. But then it will become stupid if you will tolerate his abusive mistake.

Ask him first if it's true or not.. And you should listen to your heart if you are willing to start all over again. If you are, learn to forgive and don't bring the past back..

I am not so sure this is love, just remember, this is a second chance, meaning the first chance he go was misused, and now he is at it again, trying to waste a way a second chance.

shevalicious, Being intimate doesn't suggest anything seriously - to kiss a fool may be stupid, but to let a kiss fool you is worse. Therefore, for him to leave you he never had feelings for - why not? Also, who are you to him, may I ask? Why used the word 'betrayed'? You may not even have the status to condemn that charge on him, other than being fooled into thinking that he is into you. Looking at different perspective, your kindness is pretty much a facade too - expecting something just because you are 'nice'? i AM NOT USED TO IT. i HAVE GROWN SO ATTACHED to him by now...What's this? Just because you have invested time and money into him, he has to like what? You? Marry you? I am not trying to hurl stones at someone who has just fallen; I am letting you visualize the backstage process in your blind pursuit. In fact, this love is narcissistic; you are almost like in love with yourself because everything materialized as a mirage - surreal and nothing substantial. And you claimed to be heartbroken over such a man? Should you slap yourself awake? Or should you suffer more and let your cosmic lesson do the teaching? Think about it and get over him.

it is just that you are into this overwhelming feeling of attachment to him. but i am not sure if it is love, as you might call it. love, as far as i know, does not cause regrets and depression. it is true though that love entails joys as much as hurts. but they make us better person. if those do not, then i would not affirm that it is love. or it is an unrequited love, only one way. it has to be reciprocated to be a true love. best wishes..