control your temper

@bololobo (177)
Thailand
August 21, 2010 4:48am CST
Sometimes you lose your temper and yell at your friends. Do you feel sorry or regreting after doing that? What do people think about you when it happens? So how do you control your temper, please share with me, I'm not a good temper controlling.
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6 responses
@cheravs (619)
• Philippines
21 Aug 10
Wow temper!lolz. Well I don't yell at my friends but I can do it with a family members everytime I'm pissed. Watching sports game also makes me lost my temper as much as possible I'm trying to control myself from throwing stuffs and speaking lots of bad words. Control it, I am doing it, breathing in and out could help. It will not do us good especially to the people who is seeing us getting lost our temper.
@bololobo (177)
• Thailand
21 Aug 10
oh, so do I, especially when my national football team plays; when they score, I scre?m, jump and hit everything crazil, but my friends also do like that, lol.
• India
21 Aug 10
I was a ill-tempered little boy long time back, good that now i can control my temper though only to some extent :p In my young age I used to go so out of control that i used to abuse my friends without actually thinking what i am saying. I did and do regret of those incidents even now :( NOw-a-days i have a grip on my emotions and i have learnt to ignore things things in my way that should not have been. The first thing I do (and i suggest you to try) is maintain silence when i my temper is out of its bounds, it really works, you can talk over it after you have calmed down and avoid hard fights and abuses :)
@bololobo (177)
• Thailand
21 Aug 10
yup, silence is gold :-bd
@jugsjugs (12967)
21 Aug 10
I do know that i have got abit of a temper and over the years i have found that no matter how angry you are aswell as how much you shout and scream when you lose your temper,it do not solve anything.I have also learnt that having a short fuse can also make your blood pressure shoot up and can make you ill.
• Philippines
21 Aug 10
Hello there, I've never experienced yelling at people when i was in school, but i do remember making violent doings or reactions with out shouting. no matter how hard it is we shouldn't let our temper get the best of us, because it would seriously hurt the ones close to us. most people are sensitive and you may not recognize but some could be holding a grudge.
@akopoaysi (739)
• Philippines
21 Aug 10
all regrets happens at the end and never the beginning. so we must think first before we talk. but just like you said we sometimes find it so hard to control our temper. f you think you upset your friends just say sorry afterwards or make an effort to talk to them. just dont let them make the first move always. be sure you'll be a good friend after being mean to them.
@bololobo (177)
• Thailand
21 Aug 10
thank you so much, I'll try it!
• Malaysia
23 Aug 10
i'm usually rarely get mad at people.but once i get angry,i'm very bad.yeah, i feel bad yelling at frens. some say i need not to be too cool,(don't resist to get angry) coz once i'm angry,i'm someone else.