How much time should you and your boyfriend/girlfriend spend together a week?
By canofan
@canofan (36)
United States
August 22, 2010 5:44pm CST
Hey guys, Just curious to see what people say about this. Me and my girlfriend used to spend everyday together, and now with work and all that summer and that good fun, we spend like maybe 2-3 days a week maybe a few hours a day. But we text each other regularly. Is this normal or should be seeing each other more often? I am not sure, I am fine with where I am at now but also could spend more time. It doesn't bug me as much as it bugs her that we don't hangout a lot. What are your opinons
1 response
@geebobuk (135)
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22 Aug 10
I suppose it depends on where you see your relationship going in the long-term. There are no hard and fast rules for a situation like this but it needs to be something that you are both happy with. I think the ability to text each other and contact each via the Internet can sometimes impact a relationship as well. Sometimes it is good but other times when you really need to see each other in person you shouldn't use it as a substitute for being there in person.
@canofan (36)
• United States
22 Aug 10
Well a lot of the times when i choose not to hangout it's cus with my new job, i'm working like 5 days a week which i am not used to, graduated high school this year, and really it feels like i havent had a break :/ so i get more tired and exhuasted a lot
