Is it common for two people in a relationship fight over adult videos etc...
By clouds0327
@clouds0327 (1389)
Philippines
August 23, 2010 12:59am CST
Hi, I am just curious if you guys fight over adult videos or pictures of other women without clothes in your husband's/boyfriend's laptop/desktop or cellphone? Is it normal for girls to react when it feels like not good at all. I mean I dont have anything like law or rules about it... but it is sometimes bothering because there's a lot of pictures or videos and you feel jealous or something...
I'll appreciate everyone else's opinion, suggestion or say on this.. Thanks!

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5 responses
@jennyze (7027)
• Indonesia
23 Aug 10
I guess a girl or a woman will always get jealous over other woman, either in real or in virtual, especially when the boyfriend use it in his cell phone or computer. If they can watch the adult video together, then it may not cause the fight.
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@ladysakurax (1161)
• Canada
23 Aug 10
i never found stuff like that in my boyfriend's items. Well, it is his life so he does whatever he wants. My friend would got offended though when she found those in her fiance'S stuff. She says that once your man looks into adult materials, it means that he is bored with you or he isn't satisfied.
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@clouds0327 (1389)
• Philippines
23 Aug 10
oh that's bad.. but I dont think so. I was told that it's just natural with men.. I have seen others married or with relationship that have records or copies of these videos on their cp..I dont think all of them are bored with their loved ones.. Im sure there's other explanation for this.. Thanks anyway.
@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
24 Aug 10
Well if my husband looked at photos of naked women, I would be very angry. It is not as if I were jealous, but because it is not right for those girls to expose themselves so everyone can see what they do not have on. Even though there may be no specific rules against it, it just is not right for those girls to show themselves in the altogether.
Those girls are shameless. And also it does give a wrong impression about girls, especially those who are overly endowed in their bosoms, that they are sl*ts and easy. So there is an increasing danger of rape of these cases.
@clouds0327 (1389)
• Philippines
25 Aug 10
I like your point suspenseful. However, these girls are everywhere and there's no stopping them..
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@scififan43 (2434)
• United States
24 Aug 10
I can tell you this. my gf dose not like me to have this type of pics on my computer or cell phone. she realy does not like me looking a photos of models in swimsuits or sexy ligere. she does get jelous. we do not fight over this becase I have agreed to do what she wants out of respect for her.

@scififan43 (2434)
• United States
25 Aug 10
Yes she told me up front so I knew the best thing to do is two respect my gal. I realy do not need to look at that stuff when I have her now. she is my no.1 gal.
@clouds0327 (1389)
• Philippines
25 Aug 10
Well thats so nice of you. It really bothers us girls because we get jealous it makes us feel insecure. Happy mylotting!


@sweetloveforeve (13116)
• Portugal
15 Sep 10
ahah i think is very normal^^ if i had a bf and i saw a lot of girls naked in his laptop or his cell i would not like it at all ahah i mean is not that im very jealous but only see cute girls and naked i would feel like maybe im not cute enough to him^^ and would say if you want see cute girl naked see me ahah and for sure your bf wouldnt like you also had naked boys in your cell or laptop ahah^^ thats just normal you feel jealous^^ anyway does your bf have many ones? you should talk with him^^






