IN LOVE...When can you say you had enough?
By lptan_1225
@lptan_1225 (70)
Philippines
August 23, 2010 11:43pm CST
Love is a many splendored feeling..It made you feel like jumping to the moon and can't wait to that next moment where you can see him/her again...The feeling is lovely...wonderful. Love never says you have done enough...Love knows no reason...It makes you want to give than take from the relationship. you give your all because you love,limitless...boundless...But no relationship is perfect as no person is perfect, so there are fights...But despite and inspite everything you still manage to carry on, especially if your emotional investments could have made you richer if only it is monetized.=)But all the lovely memories and happy times spent together,suddenly...BOOM!You're relationship became rocky and about to fall or fail due to extreme reasons[eg.repetitive infidelity--if you're that forgiving the first time=)]or any other intolerable reasons. Being a person in love, how long will you endure the pains and hurts that love caused you?And if you are not to still give up after the multiple wounds from this thing called "love", when is the point of time when you can say, you really,really had enough?
11 responses
@mindreader (44)
• Philippines
25 Aug 10
You cannot truly say you had enough of something which you cannot explain. Love is a many splendored feeling you say, it makes you feel unbalanced and yet floating in mid-air, how come? I say, you only had enough of someone but not of the feeling. ÜüÜ
@janiceclaire (59)
• Philippines
26 Aug 10
ditto!ü unless and until you can figure and explain what love is, you'll never get enough of it ü
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
25 Aug 10
I have said i've had enough already to my bf now..but when i try to talk things out with him and think of the years we have together i then realized that there is still enough space for forgiveness and change. We shouldn't count the number of wrongs and failures in our relationship, we should count how much each party has done to make the relationship going.. Maybe there would come a time that I will be saying i've had enough and i wanted space, the reason for that is if im no longer happy with the man im with..but hoping it will never happen.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
24 Aug 10
We really cant tell when enough is. But there are times that we think its already enough and we cant do it anymore, but we still do it. I think it depends on the person's situation for him or her to tell that enough is enough and there's no more room for an extension.
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
31 Aug 10
well in love im always forgiving things easily but i guess i had enough when this person or cheats on me or always act and act careless and dont change his attitude. for me is like that. i wont be with a guy that always act not caring to me. if we are with someone is for that person care and love us and not for us and only us care. so for me i have enough when that happens. even i say sometimes is enough and still continue trying and trying but sooner or later i get tired. sometimes we blame ourselves for that person acts careless but if we care for them and they act careless for sure is not our fault^^ anyway you are right love is wonderful but hurts much too.
@mai200725 (77)
• Philippines
25 Aug 10
When you are turned into someone your a not, that's the time I can say that I had enough in love. You cannot give love when you don't have love for yourself. When we love we sometimes forget ourselves, we tend to do things overboard and even do sacrifices just to prove our love. We forget what's right and what's wrong because we always justify our acts and end up wounded and left nothing for ourselves. The most important thing in love aside from loving is not the wounding part but the fact that you learn to stand up from where you fall and learned your lesson on when to say enough is ENOUGH!
@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
24 Aug 10
yes.. its like an energy field pushing to do things you thought you could never do.
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
24 Aug 10
I dont have any idea when I could say I really really had enough when it comes to love. Because even if no matter how much he have hurt me, I still keep on accepting him and forgive him and keep on loving him. Even if how many times I caught him cheating on me. I am still there loving him more. What a stupid love I have for him, the last thing I could say. But nevertheless, I still continue to love him. I guess until my last breath that is the only time I could say I have really enough.
@aldawn22 (224)
• Philippines
24 Aug 10
You're absolutely correct that love is indeed a many splendor feeling.But for me I can endure the pains and hurt depends on the level of the things that caused me to be hurt. Sometimes they said it's good to sacrificed for the one you love, if the thing that he/she is doing makes him/her happy then I am happy for him/her even if it already caused me pain. But of course there are limitations for these, if it will came to a point that he's treating you badly I think it's not good to continue sacrificing. Love should be a mutual relationship, if both of you will grow with it then it's good but if it's not beneficial to either party then that's the time that one should move on and stop loving that person.
@tkonlinevn (6370)
• Vietnam
24 Aug 10
In love, we can say we had enough or not. Because Love is the feel, not the need. We only say we Love or Don't Love.
