Would your marry an adulterer or adulteres?
By kukueye
@kukueye (1759)
Malaysia
3 responses
@kukueye (1759)
• Malaysia
24 Aug 10
yes it a double edge question and i guess it must be look at case to case basically.Sometime the spouse is not functioning as a good life partner and hence the other person choise to have adultery affair.I guess the wrong here is he/she should divorce first before getting into relationship.However,often enought, adulterous affair happen first.
@carpediem17 (1315)
• Singapore
24 Aug 10
At first shot, the answer will be no coz honestly how would one know he/she will not cheat on you too.
However, there may be tricky situations and will be dealt with on a case by case basis.
@kukueye (1759)
• Malaysia
24 Aug 10
yes it true also . However, no man/women is complete or prefect and human are bounds to commit wrong such in adulterous affair, i guess the question come back whether your can forgive his/her adultery affair.Whether the reason is valid. Sometime there is lot of guilt involve also, are u the course of that adulterous affair.Sad things sometime , innocent like children are involved. Are u willing to break the family? Dealing case by case is a good thing too.
@ada8may21 (2404)
• Philippines
24 Aug 10
I am stuck with your question not because I am in the situation but because they might gonna happen to me. So I am thinking would I go for it? Well I guess my answer is I'll cross the bridge when I get there. I would not know unless I am already there. I just dont know how would I react to this question.
@kukueye (1759)
• Malaysia
24 Aug 10
I also not sure alos, but i guess you have to made very sure before your cross the bridge.It will take time and patience.Sometime it is worst when it involve 2 marriage couple and will cause 2 divorce and children will be separated. Sometime have to ponder what will be damage. OFten enought, people said adulterous affairs are selfish without seeing the facts , but often the facts are distorted and the whole story is not known. Should the adulterous affair be stop and each separate for a time being to see things throught.




