Why lot's of girls love a married man?

Philippines
August 24, 2010 3:50pm CST
In my point of view, lot's of people love the married people even if they know that it is not right. What do you think about it?
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@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
13 Sep 10
because many of woman maybe that doesnt know that they love a married man
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
15 Sep 10
only believe in our instinct? is it not enough for me
• Philippines
14 Sep 10
Maybe , but we have an instinct to know that man have a responsibilities to their family and we can feel that. I have a suitors before that he always said to me that he is single but when times comes, I noticed that the way he act, he move, just like the way my father did so , meaning that man have a family.then, I found I am right,.. so, we better believe to our instinct all the time. Well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead Godbless
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@slipz1487 (415)
• United States
12 Sep 10
i do know some people who go with married man i think its because married man has more experience when it comes to playing with women..
• Philippines
14 Sep 10
Maybe you are right in your opinion that the girls think that a married man is very experienced on how to make happy a girl. But,I didn't agree that idea because if a girl think better, she have conscience not to have an affair with the married man because their family ruined because of her. Well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead Godbless
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
1 Sep 10
I ask this myself... Why would a girl in her right mind actually accept and be with a man whom she knows is married. I think there is just something about this that makes married man interesting... like kids, most women who become mistresses probably have always wanted to prove that they can get whatever they want... Its like we people have the tendency to want the things others have... just like a kid who wants the same toy or bag his/her classmate has right? Just my own analogy but not a fact for sure.
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
We have different opinion about those girls wanted to have a relationship with a married people. only themselves the one who can say and clarify whats their interest of making an affair with those men. Well, maybe they want to have a boyfriend that who really eager and willing to give whatever the girl wants so that she satisfied. We all know that almost girls are lots of likes in our body or I should say we are fashionable and we are trying our best to have the new blouses, bags, make up etc. Maybe that's the reason why lots of girl want to have a relationship with a married man Well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead Godbless
• Brazil
4 Sep 10
It can vary, depending on the woman. Some don't think it through and all they see is a man willing to commit. These women have generally been in relationships that the man has expressed his fear of commitment. The problem lies in the oxymoron in that if he does go for you, though he doesn't fear commitment he can't be trusted to stay committed or faithful. (but then it is human nature to believe we are better than another and delude ourselves into thinking we can then keep them faithful and committed while the other woman could not because she is not you/you are better than her-I DID say delude right? Okay, I'll concede that some could think really ahead and want that nice divorce settlement) Other woman could be looking for the gifts/sugar daddy and sometimes even a *cough*sperm donor*cough* father for kids without the commitment themselves.
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
You have a good opinion with this matter hoshi. Maybe some girls need to have a sugar daddy who are willing to give all to the woman just what you've said here. well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead Godbless
@tatturoy (139)
• India
5 Sep 10
Its true but this is human nature to do something which you should'nt do.So nothing can be done.
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
well, maybe you have right. we don't need to judge easily a woman because we didn't know whats really in her mind for having an affair of a married man. well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead Godbless
• Philippines
3 Sep 10
Maybe one of the reasons is because girls love to be cared and loved. since married man (for some girls) has already a responsibility they find it as the one who can give them the what they want. We all know that once we are inlove, the right things went wrong the wrong things went right..
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
Well, sometimes it happened like that but it is really wrong. But those people believe that if they really loved they grab it even if they hurt the others feeling as long as they are happy. Maybe that reason why some girls wanted to have a relationship with a married man. well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead Godbless
@youless (112113)
• Guangzhou, China
1 Sep 10
I don't know why, but I think these girls are very bad because they are spoiling others' families. Although the men are also responsible to it, but if these girls have their own principles, these men can't have affairs with them. These girls may have less experience, so they will be attracted by the mature men who especially have good careers. But no matter what, these girls must understand that these men don't belong to them. They should leave them alone and find their own men who are still single. I love China
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
Yeah, but sometimes, the girls do this because of the puberty and they have no choice how to overcome this. and this is the way they think they can solve their problem to have a relationship with a married people. thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead Godbless
@daninuk (145)
• United States
18 Sep 10
I think it's a number of things. For one, the man has already shown that he is able to settle down into a family. Although technically, if a married man gets involved in an adulterous relationship, he obviously still has commitment issues that need to be taken into consideration, I don't think it's a factor that usually gets taken into consideration. Perhaps the women think that somehow, the married man would eventually leave their current situations and marry them as well? It might also have something to do with the single woman (or man). They may have certain commitment issues that they themselves haven't yet resolved, and feel as though being with someone who actually has full-time responsibilities as a husband (and maybe a father) means that there isn't as much seriousness in the relationship. It's also human nature to want things that we can't have, right? And what's more unattainable than having someone who's already married? Just the ring on his finger alone would be temptation enough for some, at least in my opinion.
• Philippines
24 Aug 10
I guess they think it's hot. Or maybe they're looking for some adventure with a forbidden affair. Only God knows what runs inside their head.
• Philippines
25 Aug 10
some of men think that they need girls in life if they want to even if they have a wife. it's the girls problem if the girl wants to have a relationship with a married man.it's a girl's choice. thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead. Godbless
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
24 Aug 10
I don't get it either, and I just don't understand. Why they want to be other people's home wrecker. Maybe that is not their faults, but they should know better than that. Someday, they can't stay like this forever. Well, that is our lives and lifestyle of some people.
• Philippines
24 Aug 10
Why you don't understand this situation kingparker? We all know that is the trend nowadays that most women have the relationship with the married man and lots of family break because of the third party. We must sacrifice ourself if that happened to us. We don't need to be true to our feelings , we need to use our mind not to use our hearts in this case. thanks for sharing your comments here and have a nice day ahead Godbless
• United States
24 Aug 10
I have a great name for a woman and or girl as you put it who fig-it with married men, they are called home-wreckers. Although the marriage may already be in trouble a busy body like this assists in making sure it get wrecked. I consider these women selfish, and you know what karma has a tendency on creeping up on them. One day they too will be on the receiving end as they will not be girls forever.
• Philippines
25 Aug 10
Those women who have an affair with a married man even if they know they are married has their own intention why? because they believe that married man can help them in financial problem. that's also the trends now. thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead. Godbless
@PDBME2 (1014)
• United States
24 Aug 10
I just think they love the fact that they don't have all the responsibility of that relationship. They get to see the good side of that man but one day they will be married. One day they will see the other side of the fence. It might be good or bad.
• Philippines
24 Aug 10
I respect your opinion PDBME2 about this but as a girl we must see the effect for what we are doing because if that happened the marriage of the two partners will ruin and their children are pity. So, even if we love that man ,we need to refused and hide our feelings because it's not right to love the married man. Who knows someday, we meet the right man for us. Thanks for sharing your comments here and have a nice day ahead Godbless
@babyimp (151)
• Estonia
24 Aug 10
I think it has nothing to with marriage (like scarlett O'Hara wanted all the things she couldn't get). I think if a person loves another who's married, then he/she should think if it's truly love or just infatuation. But people in love can't think straight. Um, no offense. The person married may just had infatuation, got married and then slowly came to realize he/she has fallen out of love. Then he/she seeks a new person to love. I'm becoming to realize that people search for the right person to be happy and comfortable with, and in an unhappy marriage is it any wonder if one or both of them turn their interest elsewhere? P.S. I'm certainly not talking about some guys with midlife crisis who can't keep their pants zipped.
• Philippines
25 Aug 10
You have a point babyimp. There is a case in our place that my male friend married with strangers but suddenly he saw another girl and he felt in love and then he realized that his love for his wife is infatuation only.So, now he realized that is a big mistake for him. So, he had no choice but to court the girl because he felt it was really love even if he is a married man.We, cannot blame them to love to another girl. thanks for sharing your comments here and have a nice day ahead. Godbless
• India
29 Aug 10
I think that those girls are suffered because of unworthyness their boy friends but they would not see the other side of it if one would love them still became married , so that would not be believe worthfull for her too.They can not judge what do they exactly want.......... They should be taken much time to judge.
• Philippines
1 Sep 10
Yeah you have a point in there Viny1991. we have our own opinion and decision about having a relationship either a married guy or a single. But we must face the reality that having involved with a married guy is not good and its not a delicadeza for us. As a girl, even if I'm totally inlove with the married guy I still think hundred of times the consequences of the future that its not good and it is wrong. We can hurt the family of that man especially those his children and his wife. We must be careful to choose the man we love and we must know the background of them before accepting their love. thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead. Godbless
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
16 Sep 10
I can't understand that concept as well, but if their intention is because the man is rich then that is the end of the story. But as far as I know even if in terms of relationship that girls want a boyfriend of other girls is that they find it challenging. But then let us see if they can face the challenge as well. I mean if the challenge are on them already then they are acting as pathetic loser already.