Do you get annoyed if someone you referred did not signed up under you?

Philippines
August 25, 2010 10:07am CST
I am really trying my best to get referrals in one of the forum I've joined for I really wanted to win the referral contest. I have provided them my referral link but they never used it, I saw them in the forum and I am so disappointed that they weren't in my list of downlines, I can see now that they are happy with the program for they earned well. If you are in this situation do you think it is worth your time convincing people about a wonderful opportunity?
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13 responses
• United States
26 Aug 10
I know the feeling, although I have not used a forum as you, but what diamania basically is saying is that you should try other direct methods as opposed to a forum whereas unless you are a long standing member most help each other instead of new comers.
• Boston, Massachusetts
26 Aug 10
Hi Hardworkinggurl, I am quite curious about getting involve in forums but same with you i haven't tried one. i think it's challenging too but i am busy with a lot of things right now but soon i will try this one. if i succeeded here in mylot for sure i can make it too in forums! Cheers my friend!
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
26 Aug 10
That was so rude for them to do that to you. You can post your referral links to your profile here and we will try to check it out for you, we might as well like that site and give you credit for introducing it to us. Also try to mention it once you get the chance to say it on any discussions you post here so a lot can check your profile and check those other sites you are registered with.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
26 Aug 10
I just did checked your profile..will try those sites now :D
• Philippines
26 Aug 10
You can work on that site if you want to friend, happy earning!
@asiregar (864)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
26 Aug 10
indeed sad but everyone is free to determine their own choices so we keep trying one day we will get success
• Philippines
26 Aug 10
Well I have moved on in that experienced so next time I would never expect too much.
• Canada
25 Aug 10
On most of my websites I wouldn't know if they signed up and took my name out as their referral. If I knew about it I wouldn't be very happy, because it's hard work trying to convince people.. I don't think they realize that.
• Philippines
26 Aug 10
In my case I helped them out one by one through email, I have answered their questions and everything but when I saw their nick names in the forum and look at my downlines I couldn't see them, so that is very disappointing.
@apresto (127)
• Bulgaria
26 Aug 10
yeah a lot of people do that, that's their right, but it really isn't right. I have like five referals that are inactive, so is that better? I think not. You think-If I have ten active referals I wouldn't have to work anyway, but that rarely happens, so the right attitude should be - If I have a hundred referals I'll have to find another hundred :)
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
25 Aug 10
Hi.. I wonder which site are you referring to.. if you had shared with me the site.., i could have signed up under your name without further question.. and if i'm happy with that site.., I would definitely give you the credit of introducing me there especially if I earned a lot.., So maybe those people who joined under your referral don't want you to get the credit you deserve for introducing the to that site..too bad..=(
@exx007 (167)
• Philippines
26 Aug 10
what you say, that's true, too really bad!
• Philippines
26 Aug 10
Yeah I feel so bad about it that I don't update my profile on that social site anymore. Anyway I have moved on in that experienced and there are just some people who wouldn't appreciate your effort
@exx007 (167)
• Philippines
26 Aug 10
oh no! that's really really really unfair for you!
• Philippines
26 Aug 10
I say a big YES! but anyway I am still happy for they are making the forum alive because they are active there daily.
@youless (112100)
• Guangzhou, China
26 Aug 10
No, I won't be angry to it. Perhaps this person is not interested in the website I referred to. It is up to him/her to sign up under me or not. If he/she will be my referral, I will be glad. If not, I just take it easy and it doesn't matter at all. I love China
@kittenclaus (1393)
• United States
25 Aug 10
I think it's wrong of people to not use a referral link. That person took their time to let them know about the site, which otherwise they may have never found it. I've had this happen to me as well. I just try to forget about it and go on. I don't think alot of people realize that even if they don't use a referral link they are still going to be under someone. Perhaps it's jealously that stops them from allowing someone to earn from them but they need to think that it can happen to them as well. It's never easy getting referrals but always be truthful with them and be around to help them if they need it.
• Philippines
26 Aug 10
That's right! I don't know if it is jealousy or greed that they don't want others to benefit from them.
• Boston, Massachusetts
26 Aug 10
Hi Denz, I will feel bad. But i will try to understand her for whatever reasons she may have for not signing up under me. It will not stop me from moving on and doing what i need to accomplish for my online earnings. I still have more friends to invite to and who knows can sign up under me ---happy! It's really hard to convince people but once you established that you are really earning from it then they will be inspired to do the same!
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
26 Aug 10
There was one whom I referred before and then she did not sign up under me cause I think she made a mistake when she signed in. It was okay but it would have been good if she did sign in under me cause it means additional earnings.
@jhyan007 (467)
• Philippines
26 Aug 10
...hmm sorry to hear that you experienced such..well if it was me, rather than annoyed i would feel disappointed...but my advise would be to let it go and continue referring other people than wasting your time with those people who don't know how to show gratitude..:)
26 Aug 10
of course it is something that you be upset of..but if you gonna think of it more, people actually do have their freedom to choose whether to do this or not..maybe next time you will more referrals..
@jonaid (2)
• Pakistan
26 Aug 10
obviously person get disappointed if he she is doing all his effort to telling and convincing other person and at the vary time he just ignored to get in your downline and waste all ur effort its a damn pathetic thing.