Keeping the love alive

eurekafemme, I think you will need to understand that all relationships are mutually exclusive and as such they will never survive or thrive if both parties are not evolving and working together. Love is love, but compatibility brings love to its next level. Some relationships have all that love and zero of that compatibility - they probably have gone through some of the greatest conflicts ever. The difference lies in the aftermath of conflicts - does it stabilize your relationship? Or does it further deteriorate it? When you plunge a knife into you, surely the pain is tremendous. Then you have the option of pulling it out or leaving it there until you perish. Pulling it out scream pain beyond your imagination, but you will save yourself a long deal of suffering and recovery can effectively take place. Take care and have a nice day.

well if you think it cant work ever again you better not keep trying. i mean we can forgive other guy one time, two times but we cant keep forgetting and forgetting all the time. if other person really regrets and do their best to make it work again sure it can be ok^^ but a relationship to survive it needs to exist a lot of love between both people^^ or else it cant work.

I have been married for 14 years and there are times where as we do not get time together,as we also have 6 children.I think that people should make time aswell as spend time with each other as much as you can.I think as long as you can still enjoy each others company aswell as have a good laugh that is the thing that keeps the marriage in good health.

I had a fight with my husband a few days ago and its really difficult for me to revive the normal feeling I had cause I feel like I am severely damaged emotionally. And I dont think my husband understands me at all. I talk to him of course but he doesnt know how i feel exactly. I am so sad now even if me and my husband are in good terms already.

those who are in a realtionship fro more thn a fiew month they know that no love, no matter hove strong and passionate was at the begineng would not fade in time. you have to find those lttle thigs that still holds you together. like same interest, get away for a weekend and try to remember whatwas at the begineng. ideal would be not to let thing get at the point when you have no feelings for each other, but it's not always easy. i think if both parties are willing to try it, and want it they can cahnge things.