Can you have both - Love and Career - at the same time?
By airasheila
@airasheila (5454)
Philippines
August 27, 2010 3:26pm CST
Good day.
As they say, generally, if you are lucky with your career, your lovelife must be at stake. Wherein, your lovelife is not that fabulous. Wherein your relationship always end up in nothing. And vice versa, if you are lucky in love, then your career is not getting good. Wherein, the success is not at your side in most times.
Is this really true or just a coincidence, that you cannot have both Love and Career at the same time?
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6 responses
@Mitch0611 (105)
• Philippines
31 Aug 10
Right! and we just need to think ahead and plan the things that we want even if sometimes things go wrong at least we tried.
@edwardjoy2000 (2386)
• United Arab Emirates
28 Aug 10
Yes it is possible. And this can be done when you plan and balance your life properly. I have been lucky to get both career and love at the same time. I have managed to carry on with my GF and convert into marriage and at the same time I have done my studies, pursued my Post Graduation and also got a good job.
@airasheila (5454)
• Philippines
28 Aug 10
Let me congratulate you for the wonderful achievement that you have had.
@rogue13xmen13 (14402)
• United States
27 Aug 10
Not very many people can manage career and love. In fact, sometimes, if you rise up in your career, your relationship with others will fall apart because you are trying to get ahead and be successful, but that person might not be, or that person might be headed in a different direction from you.
Now, I do know that there are some people out there who can do it, I don't know how, but they do, and it can still be extremely difficult to manage it all.
@chiepao (714)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
I am proud to say that I was able to manage my love life and career life as of the moment. Me and my husband have our own work to provide our everyday needs. Though I believe that a relationship without problems is unhealthy, it is also not good for a relationship to have too much problems. It's just a matter of time management and know your goals :)
@achilles2010 (3051)
• India
28 Aug 10
I think it is not true that you cannot have both love and career at the same time. Love is the catalyst one needs for the advancement of one's career. It's presence in life nudges you on to go ahead and succeed. Didn't we hear the saying that behind every successful man there is a woman?
@sweetloveforeve (13116)
• Portugal
28 Aug 10
it depends of the person priority^^ there are those that just dedicate to work and there are those that just dedicate to bf or gf. if we want both we must dedicate to both but we cant forget that love is always more important than career. sure we all need a stable life not always counting money but without love we cant live. we must always care for both but never forget that love is more important^^
