A friend of mine in mylot was left me
@yugasini (12892)
Secunderabad, India
August 28, 2010 2:24am CST
hi mylot friends,
one best friend to me in mylot,she is not at all contacting me,regularly either i or she is responding my postings,i am sending mails to her and knowing some unknown things,recently she helped me in adding banners to my blog and change the shape of my blog and guide me about the blog,but from last one week she is not at all appearing to me and she removed my name from her friendlist,i do not know the reason,what causes her to left me leaving me here,am i have done any harm to her,i do not know,i have not hurt her alos,how can i gain once again her friendship,not happy mylotting
2 people like this
6 responses
@Jotomy (6322)
• India
28 Aug 10
Hi yugasini, just checkup at the notifier list, is it on or off. We should not think about ourselves, we have to think about others also, their unavailability, reasons too. You better contact her over mail or PM the reasons. There must be communication gap or misunderstanding in between you both. Friends never leave us unless they feel we are not match to them even then, as you said it gives so much pain when a friend will not answer to us. I wish you both will become friends again. All the best. I wouldn't think ocean Tiara is like that, i even read her responses and discussions. I can make out she is friendly.
@yugasini (12892)
• Secunderabad, India
28 Aug 10
hi jotomy,
thanks for the response
,you may be right,she may be out of station or with some busy work,you know one more frien peacelfulwomen also my best friend,she is sick,once in 15 days i will sent a mail to her about her health,she is giving reply,any how i will once again a mail to ocean tiara,i could not send pm,because once again i have found that "add as friend" in her profile page of mylot,so i will wait and pray god for her friendship,have a nice day and support to me
,you may be right,she may be out of station or with some busy work,you know one more frien peacelfulwomen also my best friend,she is sick,once in 15 days i will sent a mail to her about her health,she is giving reply,any how i will once again a mail to ocean tiara,i could not send pm,because once again i have found that "add as friend" in her profile page of mylot,so i will wait and pray god for her friendship,have a nice day and support to me
you also my kind of thinking person i feel, if my friends will not talk for any reason i will remember them in my prayers as usual.
@greygoo (795)
• Philippines
28 Aug 10
oww...that's just sad. that must've felt bad.
but i think it's difficult to solve a problem when you do not know what caused it. and that is another problem since your friend isn't answering back. *sigh*:(
hmm... your friend must have reasons for doing what she did, and i guess the only thing you can do is respect her decision.
it's sad but you can't really force a friendship.
there are a lot of nice people here at mylot. i hope you find a new friend.:)
that's one of the best opportunities that the site offers. i hope you don't let go of it.(^_^)
@yugasini (12892)
• Secunderabad, India
28 Aug 10
hi gregoo,
thanks for the response,still i admire that friend,i hope that once again she will accept my friendship that is my hope,i am straight forward person,what ever come in my mind i will say,she can inform me that i have done this thing and so iam angry on you,but she is keep silence for all these days,i hope once again that friend,have a nice day
@Buchi_bulla (8298)
• India
29 Aug 10
May be inadvertently she must have removed your name from friend list. May be after seeing this discussion, she will check up and again activate it. Or, she must have gone out of station. Think and anticipate for the better. Hope your worry is solved soon.
@yugasini (12892)
• Secunderabad, India
30 Aug 10
hi buchi_bulla,
thanks for the response,that may be right,she may be out station or gone with some other busy work,than attending my mail and messages,but i have to wait and see,what will happen,once again i put friendship request to her,i have to see the result ,she will accept or reject,have a nice day
,that may be right,she may be out station or gone with some other busy work,than attending my mail and messages,but i have to wait and see,what will happen,once again i put friendship request to her,i have to see the result ,she will accept or reject,have a nice day
@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
30 Aug 10
If you send her a friend request and she accepts, you can find out that it was probably an accident. And if she doesn't, then there was a reason. Hope that helps a little.
And yeah, it does hurt when somebody you really like just drops you for no reason that you are aware of...
@yugasini (12892)
• Secunderabad, India
31 Aug 10
hi dawnald,
thanks for the response,still i have not received any mail,pm or she is appearing in mylot,she helped me a lot in preparing my blog and putting banners in my blog,then sending regular mails and she is very kind to me,now i do not know what happend to her nothing is known,not received any acceptance of add friend also,thanks for support ,have a nice day
,still i have not received any mail,pm or she is appearing in mylot,she helped me a lot in preparing my blog and putting banners in my blog,then sending regular mails and she is very kind to me,now i do not know what happend to her nothing is known,not received any acceptance of add friend also,thanks for support ,have a nice day
@yugasini (12892)
• Secunderabad, India
28 Aug 10
hi adhyz,
thanks for the respnse,i do not know the reason,why she left me,what i is the reason,why she not turned his face to me,really she is my best friend,unexpetctedly she have done like that,she is not replied to my mails,i could not send any message for her,any she knows very well about me,but why she????
,i do not know the reason,why she left me,what i is the reason,why she not turned his face to me,really she is my best friend,unexpetctedly she have done like that,she is not replied to my mails,i could not send any message for her,any she knows very well about me,but why she????
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
28 Aug 10
hi,
that is sad. 
but surely you can ask questions on the email.
or maybe she inadvertently did erase and cant correct the mistake because she is not going online probably she is sick?
just dont give up yet. give her time to answer.
ann
but surely you can ask questions on the email.
or maybe she inadvertently did erase and cant correct the mistake because she is not going online probably she is sick?
just dont give up yet. give her time to answer.
ann
@yugasini (12892)
• Secunderabad, India
28 Aug 10
hi ann,
why you have changed the avatar of you, now you are looking too old,but your last avatar is very very nice and attractive,i feel happy,when i see your face in the mylot,all my happiness is gone,still we are in the mood that our ann is very very nice and with happy feelings,have a nice day
@tigeraunt (6326)
• Philippines
29 Aug 10
dear yugasini,
i am always happy to find people very honest. i have another picture which i will load in a while. ok?
ann
