You know what hurts so much..?

Yes, it happened earlier in my relationship with my bf. We had a fight and he made me feel like I wasn't thinking when I made that certain decision. Maybe I didn't think things through all that well at that time, but he didn't have to berate me about it. It was tough because we just had a date the previous night. I remember well because it was his birthday. That's why he even said that what I did ruined his birthday weekend with me. I felt that it was one of our more serious fights, because we were still early on in our relationship and we were probably still getting to know each other. I told him how I felt. That he didn't have to make me feel stupid because I'm not. I probably made a mistake but I'm not stupid. We apologized to each other and since then he doesn't do that anymore. We got over it and we learned more about each other, like about the things we do that hurt the other person and to think before we speak. So in times when someone made you feel stupid and you're hurt because of that, it's good to tell them about how you're feeling. That's what we both learned.

Too much hurting really. I was then in that situation and had overcame it. It took me more than a year to wake up and realize that I was so stupid believing that I was then really special only to find out that those are just lies. I had to move on and think of myself more.

This usually happens to me and my bf..sometimes it happens before our monthsary or any other special occasions of our relationship. After every fight we always learn something from it and we always try to bare in mind that we should try not to make it happen again. Both parties agree to be tired of petty fights and hurting feelings so we try our best to learn from every experience we have as gf, bf relationship.

I think I have! There's no need to waste time in people like that. And the most important thing about that situation is that you found out that you are stupid for that person. I least you wont push yourself to him or her after he or she does that to you.