How easy to become single mom?

@ynahh1 (454)
August 31, 2010 8:07pm CST
I was a teenage mom,i have one year old son and eventually am a single mom.My partner did not take his responsibility.It so hard for me to study my college degree,work and take care of my kid.Everyday for me is survival am sick and tired.How can i make my self easy to handle my situation.?
2 responses
@1megiam (25)
• United States
1 Sep 10
I was not a teenage mom but have known many. I was a single mom of two for a couple of years with no help from my chilrens' father. I don't think being a single mom can be easy but I beleive it can be happy and you can find moments of rest for yourself. You need to find a support group and some respit care. Local churches, social services and community centers in your area may offer some of these. I know in our city there is a a community run drop off center for children for a few hours or even a day if mom needs a break. Many churches offer programs for single moms these days. You are not alone in your struggle and the days will pass, you will graduate, you will have a better job. Hope this helps.
@ynahh1 (454)
1 Sep 10
i find it hard so difficult to move on especially that i just broke up and i learned that my ex husband has a new partner.i pity myself and my son for this kind of family.i never wish to have like this before,but its happened.thank you for your message.sometimes i feel like collapsing and wanted to give up but i know that if i run away with my problems it will remain unsolved.right now all i wanted is to graduate and to give my sons a wonderful life he deserves.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
3 Sep 10
Do you have anybody whom you can ask for help like your mom or a relative? i think you cant do it alone and you really need the help of others. Make them understand about your situation.