Fighting the love you feel for whatever reason.

@DenverLC (1143)
Philippines
August 31, 2010 10:34pm CST
Do you buy the idea of fighting the love you feel towards someone because of a reason? Some reasons might be your family, studies, priority, fear caused by past experiences, status, distance or anything..Is is right to ignore your desire to love someone for all these reasons?
3 responses
• Portugal
5 Sep 10
if you love someone you can show it unless the person is committed^^ if that is the case we have to respect and dont try nothing. anyway we can still tell our feelings for that person but of course dont try to be with this person. if this person loves us too then he has to say to their lover if that is the case. anyway i think that people should always say how they feel. is nothing wrong. wrong is when you try something with someone committed but tell your feelings is ok^^
@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
That's correct. It's not a sin to love but to act on your love specially when either or both are committed is a different story.
• Philippines
1 Sep 10
Yes DenverLC=), I just didn't buy the idea, I bought it...=)This had happened to me during my college days, I fell attracted to a certain guy and woke up one day that its not all about the attraction per se,but his total personality!I fought the love I had towards this person because of the precious words my father pondered to me! It had been a resounding gong in my ears then, that I shall not commit to any relationship until I graduated(strict?old-fashioned?you can name more..LOL!=)). But no regrets, after that fighting, my life is somewhat fruitful, it could have been otherwise because I was young then and might not handle responsibilities well. Everything has its own reason, I believe...=)
@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
kudos to your dad for showing you the right path..
@meso303 (76)
• United States
1 Sep 10
yes.. It is happening most of the time to many people out there,and I was one of them, I was in love before I got married, but that person left be heartbroken, and after marriage he tried to contct me,so I was fighting my love towards him to keep my family.
@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
Nice to know that from you.. I appreciate you for being strong and honest to your husband just to secure your family ties. Its about time to stay away from your past temptation. Pray when you feel the urge of human nature.