Ways to Love Better.
@sixteenthstarfarer (22)
Philippines
September 1, 2010 7:28am CST
Love is a case to case basis but are there ways to be better at it? Love yourself first, they say... but what are the other ways?
3 responses
@Vincentangelo (50)
•
1 Sep 10
They say there is always a balance in every reaction in this world. If there is sadness,there is also joy. There is always a chain reaction in every thing we do. Same in love, if love exist, pain which is counter part of it also exist. Pain exist because love is presence. So it is important that every time you learn to love, you must also learn how to accept the pain, so that if love is gone, you will also accept the pain that it will brings. Always remember, we tend to love people whom we think deserve to be love, but it doesn't mean that if you give love they will return the same love you been giving them. Sometimes world is unfair but always giving equal opportunities to those who keep trying.So the secret is to accept the pain, and keep loving; stay strong, the sun may not shine on the west but you can face the east to see the sunshine. The third secret is learn to adapt.
@sixteenthstarfarer (22)
• Philippines
1 Sep 10
Acceptance indeed, and humility. We can always claim to have loved better, gave more, and sacrificed a lot that we deserve being loved most. It's the common mistake we usually have in mind that forces us to abuse things, mislook it to a point that we hurt others.
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
1 Sep 10
Yes.., Loving ourselves should come first before we love somebody else.., and for us to love them thoroughly.., we have to be selfless and unconditional.., we should be wiling to listen not only with our ears but with our hearts., so we can understand them better.., and give them all the love they need..=)
@tianly (39)
• China
1 Sep 10
I think this is the pointthat treat others just like you treat yourself. Do you love yourself? Of course, I love myself.I want to make myself happy and everything is ok for me. according to this opinion, if you love the other just like you love youself, it is really help to improve the relationship
