Are you terminally single?

United States
September 1, 2010 2:58pm CST
Am I the only one??! Why is it so hard to find a date! When will my family stop asking me if I have a boyfriend? I'm trying to unite all the guys and gals out there and find out their story. What is it? Are we looking in the wrong place, the wrong people, is it us? Are we not dateable? Where are we supposed to meet a "normal" decent, all the good qualities human being to have a good relationship with? Have you found the great person but then turned them down, now you're wishing you hadn't?
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@franne32 (694)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
That's a pretty tough question but fear not because you're not the only one who's single. They say it's fate that they found their soul mate but I wonder. It's one of those unsolved mysteries of life __
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
Hi. Well, I've been single since birth (I'm 22 years old now) and I have never felt awful of my status ever since. In fact, I feel blessed. Well, there are times that singles like us may envy friends who look happy with their partners. But I believe that God has already set someone to be with us forever. I suggest you read "When God Writes Your Love Story" by Eric and Leslie Ludy. It's the ideal book for people, whether in a relationship or not. I'm still halfway through the book but I've already picked out essential and useful thoughts about entrusting your love life to God - the ultimate author of your life. But if you're not the religious type, just think about this: Don't feel bad about being single. It's something that you shouldn't worry about. Well, I also share my experience at times when my parents would ask me if I already have someone special in my life. I just tell them the truth and it's no big deal. In my case, I have put my career as my priority and with love life, I've long entrusted it to God. Hope you'll feel better now, friend.
• India
1 Sep 10
yes I suppose I am a Terminally single.and I love it. I am still waiting for Ideal person to come in my life.
• Portugal
1 Sep 10
well right now im confused between two guys. one i know he would never leave me neither cheat on me. he would love me forever. then there is this other guy i know he has feelings for me but he hurt me before already. i chose him but when i chose i started to think and im too confused. he even said he gives me time to see what i want. im afraid to make the wrong decision. sometimes is easier to be single :( i mean not loving anybody. so we dont get too hurt :( anyway dont think you are not datable^^ im not cute but some guys want date me ahah^^ dont worry^^ for sure you will find guys that want date you just you didnt meet right one yet^^