How many hearts have you broken?
By ktmatunog
@ktmatunog (912)
Philippines
September 2, 2010 1:01pm CST
I always have thought that it is more painful for the girl's part to be dumped, than the boy to break up with his girlfriend. But the most painful part is when someone broke your heart.
How about you have you broken any hearts in your life?You may not type the reasons if you want to.
For me, i did not break my 1st boyfriend's heart because he broke mine for some other girl. the 2nd 1 for sure i broke his heart, i don't know how i felt towards him. so i dumped him after 3 days. the 3rd 1 too, coz i never want him anyway, he just forced me to be her gf.haha the 4th one yeah. I am sorry to tell him that because of our long distance relationship, it didn't really work for me. the candle melted and the flame was just blown away.
the 5th one at last, i kept his heart!right here by my side till eternity till death do as part. "fingerscrossed!!!!"
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11 responses
@oi_va_voi (50)
•
2 Sep 10
In every kind of relationships, I've broken lots of hearts. Yet, I'm not regretful as they deserved this :/
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
2 Sep 10
Wow so many reasons for you.
I do not believe I have broken any hearts, at least inadvertently as I am not perfect. However my heart has been stepped on bit throughout the years.
I suppose I can answer this by saying I perhaps have broken my own as I saw the signs, and remained oblivious of acceptance. 
@ktmatunog (912)
• Philippines
3 Sep 10
i salute you!=p but... so your heart was broke instead of others?
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
3 Sep 10
Yes several times, sometimes I feel like a magnet I sort of attract the wrong types. I have been blessed though for 4 years now, as I live with my boyfriend and thus far I believe he has broken this vicious pattern I had.
Although he is wonderful I do have in the back of my mind that maybe he is not an exception. But I pray and Thank God that he has sent me this man as so far so good.
@meemingNEW (2226)
• Philippines
3 Sep 10
Oh my! I lost count. 
Just Kidding. I have been into 4 serious relationships. My present is my 4th. As of what I know and experienced, I broke the hearts of the first 3 guys I dated. Every single one of them. The feeling is just mutual really , because they also broke mine. No matter how big or small the break-up is, having your heart broken just goes with it.
Just Kidding. I have been into 4 serious relationships. My present is my 4th. As of what I know and experienced, I broke the hearts of the first 3 guys I dated. Every single one of them. The feeling is just mutual really , because they also broke mine. No matter how big or small the break-up is, having your heart broken just goes with it.@ktmatunog (912)
• Philippines
3 Sep 10
haha. silly!
yeah it is true. in a relationship, breaking other's heart means also breaking your heart especially when you love the person very much.
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
2 Sep 10
My view is I think if two people are in love it can be as equally heartbreaking to each one.....I say this because if you are truly in love with the other no matter who did what or who walked away your heart will break....For me personally it was when my husband walked out on me My heart crumbled into a thousand pieces and because I was angry due to lifes events at the time and my own hurt I didn't see it was as equally heartbreaking to him....We live long distance from each other right now but are trying to work things out and get back together because we do love each other very much....
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
6 Sep 10
I agree totally with that and thanks so much for best response...
@ktmatunog (912)
• Philippines
3 Sep 10
yeah! we break each other's heart even when quarreling with each other right? you break your mother's heart too when you just shout at her! your brother if you steal his toy!
in a relationship, the two are affected except if the person really and is very eager to break up!very cruel of him/her.haha
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@sender621 (14894)
• United States
3 Sep 10
You wouldn't have to get in any lines to see how many hearts i have broken. the number would be too few to count I'm afraid. i was usually the one to get my heart broken instead.
@kranthirockz (262)
• India
5 Sep 10
many of them broken my heart..but i think i never broken any others heart..
@edwardjoy2000 (2387)
• United Arab Emirates
2 Sep 10
I have been in love with one girl...who has been a true love. She has been the best thing that has happened in my life. Its been 4 years we have been togather and we have been married for the past 2 years. Right now i am going through a long distance relation and i can see parts of my heart falling of...i have been busy with work and she says that she has found someone more better than me.....But i have trust on GOD and hope on my love. It will only be patience that i can take and see things going right in december.
@rosielleanne (121)
• Philippines
3 Sep 10
I have broken a lot of hearts. Why? Because I don't want mine to be broken so I do it. But everytime I break someone's heart, it breaks mine also. But some of my ex boyfriends broke my heart big time. It's really hard. It hurt a lot. Maybe it's just karma. But I'm ok now. I hope this time it'll be perfect.
@xtmlove (402)
• China
3 Sep 10
I had three times when my heart felt broken.First,I only went to a common university after took the college entrance examination,though I was studied hard and had good expression in peacetime .Second,my girlfriend left me at the last year in university,maybe I didn't took good care of her.Third,I chosen to get my master degree to a specialized which I didn't like,maybe I was confused with this thing at that time. After these things,I becoming more and more careful,because I don't want to have the feel any time.
