Disloyal and UnFaithful Husband/Wife

Marikina, Philippines
September 3, 2010 4:00am CST
What you should do if you see your husband or your wife has a "third party" involve? Do you still give your husband or your wife a second chance or you would rather filed him/her a divorce or annulment?
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@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
3 Sep 10
..hi.. actually, that happened to me for several times and several times also that I tried to make our marriage work.. until now, I'm trying and looking for alternatives or solutions so that our marriage won't be ruined.. I gave my husband many chances already.. however, he still continue doing it.. when I ask him if I have done something wrong that made him do such terrible thing, he just tell me, I did nothing wrong.. right now, I'm already thinking of focusing my life to my daughter's future..
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@srganesh (6339)
• India
3 Sep 10
Do your husband have any physical relationships with other girls? Then it is very serious and you have to seek help from the family elders to resolve this. But if he is just having lust towards other girls, then it is normal. But warn him not to exceed his limits.
• Portugal
5 Sep 10
would end the marriage bcs it just meansn he didnt love me or wouldnt need other woman in his life. also i didnt know for how long he was with her and i hate lies. if we love someone else while married not our fault bcs we cant control feelings but if we feel that way we must tell it and not hide it. anyway life is short to waste time being with someone that can cheat again. so we can find someone else that loves us and dont lie :)
@srganesh (6339)
• India
3 Sep 10
It depends on the community and social setup where you live. And financial freedom also plays a great role in this. For instance, if the male is having some extramarital affairs, the girl cannot oppose him if she has no financial support. And some girls fear the society too to remain single. In some situations, the girls are ready to come out of the marriage but it is very rare. Anyhow, it will be hell to go with a partner who is no more loyal.