Being ignored

@Absinto (2385)
Portugal
September 3, 2010 7:12pm CST
how do you feel when your best friends ignore you?
9 responses
@Sphinx30 (286)
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
Well for me that is the sadden part of me because I've consider them bestfriends but all of a sudden they ignore me? that's really turn me off and they don't deserved to have a friend like me.
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
5 Sep 10
Yes! friiends that ignore others shouldnt have their friendship
@iamjesca (185)
• Philippines
4 Sep 10
I have to know the reason why he/she is doing it so. Because, I would feel real sad if my bestfriend is not talking to me anymore. Friendships don't come and go that easily. I mean with your bestfriend, you establish trust with each other. It would be insensitive on his/her part to not tell me the truth of the real problem. Bestfriends do share problems right?? So, no matter what i would like to find out whats wrong about our friendship and find ways to fix it.
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
4 Sep 10
yes, true friends always know that they will fix the problem, even if it takes a while :)
• India
4 Sep 10
hello friend if he or she is ur best friends he/she never ignore u because if he/she is ur best friends knows u very well about you and ur nature if some missunderstanding is there or nothing else because best friends never ignore his best friends.
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
4 Sep 10
Maybe so, but sometimes they just do it for stupid reasons i guess. Thanks for the response :)
@zausiu (610)
• China
4 Sep 10
It grieves me if my best friend ignores me. I will try to find out the reason. But it is very difficult to communicate well with someone. It's not easy to have a BEST friend.
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
4 Sep 10
Yup it isnt easy. I actually only have 2. Thanks for the response
@abj163 (1037)
• India
4 Sep 10
this thing never happened with me... but a female friend ignored me last year.....i also ignored her...we were not best friends but i can say good friends....if she dont wanna talk to me then why i should i talk to her.... yesterday me and her came face to face in my college's corridor ....i was talking to my friend while walking in the corridor and i saw her she looked into my eyes and behaved like a stranger ....i also looked in her eyes and continued my talk with my friends....infact i also behaved like a stranger....haha....if he/she ignores you then you should also ignore him/her......thats the way of life-acc to me.... because every action has equal and opposite reaction.....
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
4 Sep 10
Haha good way to deal with it ;) Thanks for the response
• Philippines
4 Sep 10
i will tell her why you ignoring me??? yes its hurt and sad.. but i have to confront her, did i make something wrong?? thats all and then after that if i make the mistake tell her sorry.. just llike what i did to my friend.. i said im sorry with all my heart...
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
4 Sep 10
Yes, it could be something we did and we might need to talk about it and figure things out. Thanks for the response
@elmiko (6630)
• United States
4 Sep 10
well if it happens for too long then i would no longer consider them best friends.
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
4 Sep 10
That is one way to deal with it :) Thanks for the response
@anil78650 (177)
• India
5 Sep 10
It is bad being ignore by someone but it is really vary bad being ignore by your best friend.......I have a best friend and for some reason he started to ignore me like don't picking my phone, when I call him to my house he just say OK I will but he didn't come.It feel bad and then I started to ignore him too.....and now he is not my best friend......But I still miss him......because he is the cheerful person in our friends group.......But I ask everyone don't make mistake like me.........
@queery (83)
• Jamaica
4 Sep 10
Ok this is my take on it, a good friend is a lifetime friend, but sometimes they need some space. To maybe explore different people, experience different things you know. I know it may sound harsh your friend is gone to experience other things with out you. But you have to be confident enough to trust in the bond that you both created. One thing i have experienced with my really good friends is that no matter where they go or how long they go, because of the bond that we have created they always come back. Im not saying to sit and wait for them to come back continue living your life. If you are sure that you did not do anything to offend your friend relax and live they will come back when the time is right. A really good friend is someone we should cherish.
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
4 Sep 10
I see your point of view. Thanks for your opinion :) I believe you could be right on this one