Something disappointed me and I can not say
By OliveSu
@OliveSu (3)
China
September 6, 2010 8:01pm CST
I was in a fellowship for half a year and I got friends with them all, except the pastor. She hurt my roomie and I a lot and deeply and even though we have moved out, but we can not forgot it. We know it was not right to hate someone, but we can not stop it. I can not start saying this to my friends in that fellowship, cause they think I had a bad temper. I never thought I had a bad temper but I say everybody has a moody time. I do not believe in fellowship, will not trust pastor and do not hope to get involved in church life too much. The first thing I need to do is to pray for forgiving her and blessing them. Then, what are you going to do? Will you feel disappointed when you see someone talking about bible for a whole day while doing something other not correspondence with bible?
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5 responses
@tiffanyveron (33)
• Canada
7 Sep 10
The Bible also says that you should talk first with the person who offended you. Even though it is the Pastor they are still human being and commit mistakes. I believe it is also for her best interest to know how you feel. She must have a good explanation of the bad behaviour in the past. And i agree that it is not good to start of share your bad feelings towards the member of your church. That would be hypocrisy. Secondly, pray about it. "For all things work together for good to them that love God".
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
7 Sep 10
I agree with that too and also praying to God will help in you finding the forgivness....But we are all human and make mistakes...
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
8 Sep 10
Personally this is a sad shape to be. Especially if it is from someone within a ministry. But I can understand where you are coming from as I have seen and experienced it myself in churches I have attended as well. But truthfully a person who is in Church should live the Bible and be an example and witness to others instead of being in the world and wanting to live like the World. Personally if I were you I would be Praying for these people and ask God to show them how they were wrong, and to also touch your heart and guide you to a more comfortable place in a church where you can worship him again.
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
7 Sep 10
I think it's natural to be hurt when someone makes a mistake that could hurt us...I would just try and get through your hurt feelings over what happened and pray about it and you will soon beable to find the forgivness....
@achilles2010 (3051)
• India
7 Sep 10
Sit back and ponder over it. What made her to act in this way? Does she hates you too? May be she is regretting for what she did. I think it is just a passing phase. Things would get sorted out. Do not do anything hastily.
@ree_yah (462)
• Philippines
7 Sep 10
hi! i am a devoted christian. i think you have to know more about your religion. being a christian is being patient, being kind, being forgiving, caring, and loving. If you see someone who did not act the way a christian must be acting, you should make a move for that person to change,
as for pastors. or priests, they are just god's instruments i believe. and whatever their mistakes are, theyre just humans just like us who has animal instincts we cannot sometimes control.
I hope youll serve as an example to your fellow christians instead of being so angry with them. educate yourself with your religion.
have a nice life..
