I hate my sisters

Vietnam
September 7, 2010 1:48am CST
I have four sisters. We're very happy when we were children. But when my sisters have grown up, they leave me to go out with their sweetheart or their friends. They even don't visit me 2-3 times per year. I hate them!
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@romania2 (237)
• Philippines
7 Sep 10
This happens... not just with sisters, but with close friends as well. You don't have to hate them. Try to set up "dates" and things. Call them, talk with them. I'm sure they'll appreciate that. If they don't respond, you can tell them that you're feeling a little neglected. I am very close to my siblings. We are all growing up, getting sweethearts, but we always have time with each other. Every month, we have a "sibling day" wherein we all watch a movie and eat dinner and hang out. We actually got the idea of a "sibling day" from our parents, who always had a date night. It's like our chance to hang out (and get away from the parentals).
• Vietnam
8 Sep 10
I used to do like this before. However, they still respond to me. I realize that I only call them and call them. After a long time, I feel bored. I didn't call them again. Humh!
• Philippines
10 Sep 10
Quite a strong word you use against your sisters. I guess you don't truly mean it. What you probably want to say is that you dislike them for ignoring your existence. I grew up with 2 sisters and no brothers. We are now grown-ups and with families of our own. No matter how much we wanted to see each other but family life has taken away our bonding time together. Actually we rarely see each other nowadays. However, it doesn't mean that we no longer love one another. Give them a call once in awhile or text them. Just kick the pride aside this time and try to reach out for them.
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
7 Sep 10
I think you need to be reasonable and open minded with the situation my friend. There are really times that we need to be distant with our siblings for several reasons. One is due to their career move and another is when they create their own family or gets married. If your sisters cannot visit you because they are afar working, then understand them. If likewise they cannot visit you because they have their own families, then you also need to understand their situation. Are you the youngest? Do you have a job? Are you still single? Perhaps, if you are not busy, then take the initiative to visit them or communicate with them. I guess, they are just busy and that they think you also need to be independent. Do not hate them just because there were changes my friend. Besides, you cannot change the fact that they are your sisters.
@maylaine (441)
• Philippines
9 Sep 10
hey girl dont just feel that way..let them know what you feel at the moment...it is hard to keep hatred in the hard specially for those people whom you love so much...talk to them first.....goodluck..
• Philippines
9 Sep 10
Oh, it is never good to hate somebody. I hope you will make peace with them. Are you the eldest or the youngest in the family? Maybe they are busy, that is why they cannot visit you. Maybe you can visit them instead of waiting for them to visit you. Is that possible? When you want to build a good relationship with your sisters, you must make the first move. Perhaps you can also have a heart-to-heart talk with them and let them know how you feel. I hope they will understand.
• Philippines
7 Sep 10
Sorry for that. Maybe, they had been so busy because of certain reasons. If I were you, you should be the one to visit them. Well, if they can't make it to visit you, then why not be the one to visit them? Don't hate them for being like that. Maybe, they have their own reasons. Confront them too. Discuss the matter in a good way. Avoid conflicts and love another.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
7 Sep 10
please, you must try contact them. Maybe they very busy, so not have time to visit your home. Or, maybe thing a good, changing, you are visit and stay in their homes. My message is, don't ever break the relationship with siblings because they are the closest person who can understand your life
7 Sep 10
however, she is your sister. you must peacefull with your sister