when your boyfriend dont do what you want...

Whoa! Slow down girl, you need to stop that kind of thinking right now! Trust me nothing good will come out of it. Thinking like this is going to make your fears come true. Trust me on this, what your telling him by acting that way, is that your a control freak and you can't trust him. Which could make him think he has to lie to you in order to keep you happy, cause when he tells you the truth you think hes lying. Also it may lead to him running because you'll become the crazy gf, and he'll look for something else and finally theres a chance he'll decide he doesn't want to be with "someone like you". Relationships are hard and complicated, there is no such thing as easy. Relationships are not 100% and can break, that's the risk we take falling in love. Though in order to make it work you have to talk, have to trust one another fully and respect each other. No offense but clearly from what you have wrote you don't trust or respect your boyfriend. And that leads to problems.