appreciation
By donnaheff
@donnaheff (158)
Nigeria
September 9, 2010 11:18am CST
have you ever been in a relationship that it seems you are not appreciated? Today i read a story of a successful banker that was at the verge of killing himself because he felt he was working day and night to please his wife but nothing he did was appreciated by the woman. A lot of us share the same pains in our relationship where we give in our all but our partners seem to be exploiting us, never satisfied with our efforts. This may not be in your private relationship but may be in your business or office. Have you ever been on this road, why not share it
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3 responses
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
10 Sep 10
There have been many times that i have been in a relationship where I didn't feel i was appreciated. I would begin to think the the fault for that was all mine. i was saying or doing something wrong to make this happen. Then i would come to realize that wasn't true. If i am not feeling that I am appreciated, i would want to move on. Being in an unsatisfying relationship is not good for anyone involved. We have to choose what will make us happy.@donnaheff (158)
• Nigeria
10 Sep 10
you can neever be at fault. If you know you are giving your best but there is no dint of appreciation or your partner keeps nagging you, it is better you opt out of that relationship. You can do better without such a person. Go for somebody who loves you for you and not for what you are
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
9 Sep 10
I seldom do things for others nowadays. I usually do things for me and appreciate myself if ever i break a personal record or something. But, yeah, it's important to appreciate others with the things they do. We still have to be careful though cuz there are people who tend to brag about their accomplishments too much whenever they're appreciated. They gain pride cuz of this and become too cocky. I'd say just give the right amount of appreciation.
@winstonbaltazar (355)
• Philippines
9 Sep 10
I felt that feeling but not as a marriage couple but as a son to my parents. You know it's very difficult to motivate and endure all the hardships you put into something for them to appreciate but yet nothing. Sometimes totally nothing and it hurts when someone appreciates you a lot but your own blood never tell you that kind of appreciation.
