do you believe you can be happy in an arranged marriage? O_O
@sweetloveforeve (13116)
Portugal
September 11, 2010 7:41pm CST
hi guys^^ do you believe you can be happy in an arranged marriage? about me i think that just if those people are too lucky and love each other already before marry or fall in love after marriage bcs is possible that they dont fall for each other, even that they already love someone else and bcs that marriage they cant be happy. i dont agree with arranged marriages. we must marry with person we love already and too much^^ anyway guys what you think about it? please share your opinions^^
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@voldrox (7191)
• India
13 Sep 10
Hello sweetloveforeve,
I believe i can live happy in an arranged marriage. The only thing is that i need some time to spend with the girl to know her more. Arranged marriages have their own advantages since, you are not acquainted to each other so you may not have much quarrels and perhaps could have more respect for each other. Now love marriages have their disadvantages like if you get in a fight, it could get pretty serious too, since you know each other from a long time and could perhaps accuse each other on their weak points if the fight gets serious. So, there is nothing like love marriages are better than arranged marriages but the main thing is how you both get along with each other. That is the most important thing in a relationship.
@vjenkins86 (1478)
• United States
12 Sep 10
I personally don't think I could be happy in an arranged marriage. I'm a stubborn person so knowing that I don't have a choice is always going to to anger me which will probably taint the marriage from the beginning.
However, I know that some people are lucky enough to grow into love with people they are forced to marry. I just don't think that could be me. The man I marry is one choice I don't want anyone else to make for me.
