How to know the guy like you or not?need help~~

China
September 12, 2010 1:28am CST
There's something confuse me for a long time.I need a suggestion from u. I has been carrying a torch for a guy for years .Several months ago ,I told he that I had fallen in love with him secretly for years.And he told me he can feel and noticed that for a long time.It was difficult to express heart palpitates and i frightened brush-off,but I did at last.I hoped win his love,but he neither accepted not refused me. Does he like me ?What I should do? confuse.....
10 responses
• Philippines
12 Sep 10
Hi GabyChu, It's so hard to determine whether he likes you or not. For one, you have not mentioned about what he does to you to make you think or feel that he feels something for you. Then, not accepting nor refusing your confession could only mean that he doesn't want to get you embarrassed. Being the first one to spit it out is already embarrassing and he doesn't want to embarrass you more. Maybe, try to see how he deals with you after telling him what you feel about him. But be careful, he might just take advantage of the given fact that you did the first move. Give it some time...and there you can make a conclusion on what or how he feels for you. Good luck! :-)
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• China
12 Sep 10
thank you for your response. if he refuse my confession,I maybe feel better.
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
hi there Gabychu2010, what you should do is stay a distance from him, so that if he will reach you that means he don't want you to lost, but if he wont communicate, that means he cant accept the feelings you are offering to him, he just don't have the guts to tell, for you not to be embarrass more...its enough you initiate the first move once...its for the guy now to decide whether he will accept it or not...if he wont accept it, well then, its not your lose, its his...hope you got my point...
• China
13 Sep 10
hi ,I get it ,tkank you very much.
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
12 Sep 10
I think he has his thoughts if he wants to have relationship with you or not. If he can be serious or not. But my question here is how close are you as friends?
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
yes, metatronik is right, you also have to consider the friendship that you had with that guy....maybe he cant afford to lose his friendship with you, thats why he cant decide if he will accept your feelings or not...
• Vietnam
12 Sep 10
I think time will give you the answer, don't give up, one day he will know and accept you. Wish you lucky with the guy you choose.
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
In order you to know if he likes you observe his attitudes and traits for you is he consider you special? Do you feel that in him? If he love you there are so many signs that you can conclude either he like you or not just be vigilant the way he acts with you
• China
13 Sep 10
he is a shy guy I can feel that he is unable to reach a decision.
• Philippines
12 Sep 10
if you love someone you better prove it because if you don't they might not believe it...because love is not a noun to be defined but a verb to be acted upon... so you must prove it so he believe in you. Maybe he like you but he hesitate to tell you.
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
12 Sep 10
Hi, Since you have told the guy about your feeling,so what is his reaction after hearing your words. Does he give a good response? AT least, you have the courage to express your feeling. If I were you, I may not doing it as I am a shy person. However,from my own experience,if a guy really like you and have a special feeling for you, he will show his cares and will always contact you,you can also try to ask him to help you on certain thing,and see whether he is willing to help or not. Maybe ask him to get you a supper one night and see what is his reaction. I did that to my guy and I was so suprised he really bought me a supper, then I really confirmed that he like me alot.
@mikeowl (200)
• Malaysia
12 Sep 10
Most probably he still doesn't know whether he wants to accept you or not. Maybe he is still thinking about it and want to see how things goes first. If he does thinks means he do care for you. He haven't rejects you means that he might have this thought of liking you too. Maybe he is trying to find a way to make it up with you. :D
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
12 Sep 10
it's really hard to tell if he likes you or not. but what did he told you after you have confessed? sometimes there are people who take advantage if a girl has done the first move. that's why it really can be hard when you are clueless in such situations. furthermore,you will be able to know if he really likes you by his moves. i once had experienced telling a guy i have liked him. hen he started to make a move to me,but then,i am sure he's just taking advantage of me and he really doesn't like me at all.he's just trying to give into my idea.and i have figured out myself he really is not worth it. just let it go.if he likes you as well,he will make a move,and you'll soon realize if he is really worth to love.don't rush on things,my friend!
@jhyan007 (467)
• Philippines
12 Sep 10
...it's really hard since other guys are good in pretensions...either he don't love you but don't want to lose your current friendship with him or either he love you and don't know how to say or express it despite the fact that he already know your feelings towards him...personally, if i like somehow, i used to tease her or wants to look at her at times when she less realize....also, i always offer something for her....like,i will offer her to do this and that for her, or perhaps offer her to go outside and hang out..things like that..