Your Wife/Husband Gets All Your Money on a Bank......

Marikina, Philippines
September 13, 2010 1:41am CST
Do you consider your wife or a husband a theft if she or he gets all your money on a bank and left nothing? You are both married. You give your trust to your partner about the money you have save on a bank. It means, your partner has the permission to get your money on a bank if she or he needs something. So, how about you? I am just curious. Do you report him or her as stealing to the cops?
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5 responses
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
I would say since you are married, the money in the bank is both yours and his. it is under your namess right? a joint account. if that is the case it is not a theft and i think you will most probably not haave a case against your husband.
• Marikina, Philippines
13 Sep 10
Oh... I remember our trainer in Pinoy Guhit Animation, he is a guy and he has a wife and there is nothing left in the bank account. The reason is the wife gets all the money on a bank account without permission to her husband. She just spend the money she wants and there is really nothing left on a bank account. Her husband--our trainer was depressed and stressed because of what the wife done to his bank account. He doesn't have any money. Every day, our trainer was asking for the money to buy food and for the necessities they need. So, I was just wondering if it is possible to file cases to your wife or husband if he or she gets all the money on a bank.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
14 Dec 10
Love is all trust and belief, if trust is not there then it is no more love. If BF does this, he breaks the trust of true love. So there is no forgiveness or hatred as BF failed to deserve the true love.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
13 Sep 10
hi IntrovertShy, Well, since you are married then legally he has every right to it just as you would. Calling the cops would accomplish nothing other than to possibly cause more problems in your marriage. This is a marriage problem and not a legal matter. You need to sit down and talk with your husband and find out what happened to all the money and why was it taken out without talking it over with you? I think when you are married there should be a savings that is used for things that you both agree on and a checking account set up to pay the bills. I think that if either wants to touch the joint savings it should be discussed and agreed on. I think each person should have their own spending money that they can spend on whatever.
@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
13 Sep 10
If you share an account you can't do anything about it since it is also in their name..I think even if you had your own account, and gave the bank your permission for your spouse to withdraw money, you still can't do anything..The only way to protect money of your own is to have your own account where only you can take money out of.
@ongtina (1232)
• Singapore
13 Sep 10
I think it's best to settle it between the couple before thinking of others or even the police. Firstly, was the spouse informed before the take? Is it the first incident? If it's the first, a serious communication breakdown had occurred. Cos, if the spouse is not willing to share in the first place, it would not have been shared. Communicate.