What's your stand on a "one night stand?"

Philippines
September 13, 2010 9:08am CST
Last weekend, I got a phone call from a friend. Something weird happened to her. She went to a resto bar alone. She ate dinner and had a little drink to kill time while listening to the live band playing acoustic songs. Later, the manager aproached her and asked if she's alright. When my friend nodded and smile, he left right away. She had fun all by her self. Later as she was waiting for a cab, she was surprised to see the guy (the manager) behind her.. They talked a little...and got longer until he asked her to hang out with him. Since it was her day off and he was a gentleman in ways, she agreed after thinking for a while. They got along so well and maybe they were too comfortable with eachother despite the fact that they barely know eachother. They were so matured and civil with eachother that they ended up in bed. That's the so called "one night stand". How about you? Would you sleep with a guy or a girl you have just met? If so, what are the factors that would make you want to do it?
9 responses
nicococo
@nicococo (134)
•
14 Oct 10
I've already had several one night stands. It's not a big deal, especially if both are consenting, responsible adults. I am not against having some fun. As long as I use protection, I really don't mind.
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oeguanghui
@oeguanghui (108)
• China
12 Feb 12
best wishes to you. young man. take care and enjoy your life.
aerous
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
25 Sep 10
In my opinion; since I am a man. That is an opportunity to have someone in bed, unless talk good thing and agree on what is all about...not bad I think. But in other case; I don't want to take advantage on the weakness of the women. Even do I know that we agree on that events... have a great day!
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Jatada
@Jatada (291)
• India
19 Feb 12
What a great response.I think you are right that why should take advantage of women weakness.But if she realy want to give you advantage than if you will go with the lady to whom you realy dont know well.
aerous
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
27 Sep 12
I don't know if I refused or not when someone else something like that. But if the actions didn't show anything rude to make happen...I maybe consider things.
chiyochan
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
I am not into it. I will not be doing anything like this even if the chance is just right in front of me, even if the person is soo hot. nope no way on such
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chiyochan
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
17 Sep 10
i think that is not safe, i would say too that one night stands are very risky. you never know what kind of people you meet out there... just be careful and always be safe.
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meemingNEW
@meemingNEW (2226)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
Thank you for sharing your friends' interesting night last weekend. :) As for me, I would never sleep with a guy that I just met. Why won't I do it? I guess based on facts, having one night stands are the easiest form/way of getting STDs or even AIDS because you barely know the person.. I would never risk myself because its way too risky and I just don't want to do that thing with someone I don't know. That's just it. :) Best of luck
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zoey7879
@zoey7879 (3092)
• United States
3 Nov 10
I've done it once, and I think that I'll pass the next time around, no matter how tempted that I may be.
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ergfortes
@ergfortes (516)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
no, i wouldn't do that. besides the fact that it isn't safe, making love should be sacred and should only be done with the one you love.
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WW
@samtise (14)
• China
27 Jun 11
for me, it depends, sometimes people is hard to keep your mind sharp constantly, if that is the right man why not? yes one thing is really important to keep "safe way"!
Jatada
@Jatada (291)
• India
19 Feb 12
I dont believe in one night stand.What will be the enjoyment if i dont know her.Its just enjoyment for only for hours after that you feel guilty why you sleep with him even you dont know him.