should i bail out or stay in the relationship? is playing cards really addictive

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my boyfriend always play games with his co-workers and would oftentimes spend the whole evening up to the wee hours of dawn playing cards with them. He schedules lovemaking as if its an appointment, once a month, and told me doing it more than once a month is for people with lusty appetite or maniac. i tried to explain to him that health-wise it would not be good for him to stick to his principle but he accused me of being a pervert, omg,me? i was too angry at him to retort. last night, he did not came home after having been gone for 5 days. he went straight to play cards and tonight he said he would not be coming home again, its raining and he'd rather play cards. i was hurt, i still am. and i am confuse because he doesn't want me going out to have a good time because it's not womanly, and yet he's doing this to me. i am beginning to think that he doesn't care for me, anymore. i feel so unimportant for being disregarded because of game cards? i just can't understand it. other people told me that playing cards can be addictive and that maybe my boyfriend is starting to get addicted to it, hence his ways. but i don't know, i'm confuse. i love him but if he will continue doing this to me, would it be better if i bailed out now? from the rate we're going, we would certainly end up breaking up, with him infatuated with his card games and no more time for me or for us both. is it truly addictive? i mean playing cards? would it make you prioritize your games more than your girlfriend or loved one? would you let yourself not see your gf because of it? please i need your thoughts on this.