friendship that was lost

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i am still sad of a friendship that was lost, to know that thre are people whom you would thought wer a real friend to you were in fact the one who would fail to trust you and believe you, and would not seem to bother to know what was the truth,and you would soon realize that you were left behind clueless and a little betrayed.. this happened to me 2 years ago.. this friend of mine is scheduled to leave for work in abroad as a seafarer, but before the schedule of departure there were gossips of my friend's infidelity, this news was true, and my friend's family tolerated it because they don't want the local boyfriend to be the future husband of their daughter, sad part of the story for me is that the local boyfriend was left clueless and he's hoping and believing that they would marry soon.. as a friend, (we've know each other for almost 8 years already, and we've been good friends) i told her that i did not like the truth about her infidelity, so i advised her to stop it soon as possible and to decide whom to choose soon as possible for her to avoid facing bigger problems..but just as soon as she arrived abroad, her local boyfriend tried to communicate with her through the chat, but to his surprise,it was the other guy.. they had a long talk and they knew that they were cheated.. then a big twist of story came to me as a surprise, the mother of my friend talked to me and blamed me for what happened, for she was told by her sister that i was the one who told the local guy of the infidelity of my friend and that the mother told me that they would sue me for telling false accusation.. i was shocked.. i tried to be calm.. then i thought of e-mailing my friend but i did not know what to say and where to start, so i decided to wait for her to contact me, but then until now, we haven't talked, i guess she also believed that i was the one who told her boy friend.. i cried many times for that reason.. i don't deserve to be treated that way, for i thought she was a real friend... if you were me, what would you do? would you tolerate the wrong doings of your friend? or have you felt similar? what did you do to make yourself feel better?