love is accept all flaws?^^
@sweetloveforeve (13116)
Portugal
September 13, 2010 3:12pm CST
hi guys^^ is love accept all our patners flaws?^^ i mean if they have a bad habit is love accept this?^^ for me i think we must accept the flaws but i loved this guy that was always always turning his back to me in arguements and i got sick of that. i didnt like his attitude. even i loved him. bcs i think if we love we also respect so he should stay for us to solve probs but no. anyway what about you guys?^^ what you guys think?^^ please share^^ 
4 responses
@akn1961 (1034)
• India
14 Sep 10
yes my sweetloveforeve ,if we realy love then we have to accept partner as it is ,we should not try to change him or her ,that is individual feature ,if we try to change then person will not be original ,we should share positive and negative habits sportingly
@sweetloveforeve (13116)
• Portugal
17 Sep 10
yes you are right^^ if we love we cant change that person or she is just not being herself ^^ i agree with you^^ but sure we can say something we dont like like bad attitude. anyway is good to see that you respect person you like and yes shouldnt judge each other all the time^^ love is also say what is bad when something is bad^^ thanks for your answer^^
@jailo12 (332)
• Philippines
14 Sep 10
for me accepting the attitude or character of the person you love is a must if you really love that person that much. its like saying just go with the flow. if you love truly well its the good thing to do. and just advice your partner if you really cant deal with his or her bad attitude or character. you can talk of it, and have a solutions for the mean time. ^^
@sweetloveforeve (13116)
• Portugal
17 Sep 10
yes jai you are right^^ if we love we have to accept and if is something we dont like we must say it and solve it^^ that was what i wanted to do before with this guy i liked but he always turnt his back to me and even said he loved god more than me. that was what made me really understand we were not for each other. for me love is the most important thing so if he doesnt love me more than everything then he is not the right guy for me^^ thanks for your answer jai^^
@asxenon (1440)
• Malaysia
14 Sep 10
The most important thing is to understand each other and to respect your partner for what he is. Communication is the most important factor and do let him know if you feel anything he does that irritates you. Then just discuss on ways to prevent/minimize that from happening. I think one can accept certain flaws of their partner but their partner too has to accepts flaws you have. If either side is always giving and the other side is always providing, then i think there is something wrong with the relationship. Relationship should be honest by itself.
@sweetloveforeve (13116)
• Portugal
17 Sep 10
yes you are right^^ communication is very important. there was this guy that i liked and he liked me too but everytime we argued he just always turnt his back to me. was like he didnt care for my feelings. he even said he wasnt only one having bad attitude. but i was always the one trying to put things right. but it didnt work bcs of that and other reason that was even worse than this one. he said he loved god more than me. how could he say that? i was chocked. thanks for your answer^^ and yes must not be always the same person giving in or it wont work^^
@Cookiebear (159)
• Canada
13 Sep 10
I think it does, to a point, that does not mean to say we have to be with that person, or anything. Love is a very complicated situation and it should not be taken too lightly.
Though yes I do agree to be able to fully and truly love someone, you have to love them exactly how they are. The good along with the bad. And not try to change who they are.
@sweetloveforeve (13116)
• Portugal
17 Sep 10
yes^^ you mean we have to accept the good and the bad but also dont let them talk bad or something right?^^ that respect is also needed^^ i say this bcs a guy i liked always turnt his back to me in arguements and then it was always me trying to put things right. we cant just always do things our way and also see other person feelings^^ but sure love someone is love who they are but there are always things we dont like ahah^^
