too much attention
By goddezathena
@goddezathena (30)
Philippines
September 14, 2010 1:45pm CST
i am so devoted and attentive to my boyfriend.since we have a long distance relationship,i always email him and wants to chat everyday. lately,i have noticed that he doesnt reply to my emails often. and he said iam too concerned of what he is doing cos i keep on asking him to tell me his daily activities. he doesnt want me to bother him while he is out with his friends. hes telling me he loves me but he doesnt even call me.now,i dont know if he is really serious of me or not.
1 response
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
18 Sep 10
Maybe you should just take it a bit slower, sweetie.
Men are like that.
They do not always want the attention we want, unfortunately.
One thing about mine, he will always tell me where he is going and when he will be back.
This is hard relationships with a lot of work and trust.
But both of you need to work on it.
Talk to him about it, if he doesn't see it your way, you should consider leaving him.
We cannot expect them to sit home each day, but that communication, trust and respect is very important.
Luck.
TATA.
@goddezathena (30)
• Philippines
22 Sep 10
yeah i think u are right. im trying my best to make our relationship work but he sems taking it easy. he sometimes ignore me and take me for granted while i am too worried if he doesnt write me and keep in touch. maybe i shud leave him cos he doesnt deserve the love im giving him. maybe one day he will realize my worth when everything is too late ..
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
22 Sep 10
Only you can make that decisions, sweetie.
I would leave mine if he treated me that way as well.
Both need to work on this and i have to admit he works just as hard on this relationship as i do.
Talk to your boyfriend about it, if that doesn't make sense to him, leave him then.
Luck.
TATA.
