ur lover woke up with girl beside him bcs he was drunk last night u forgive him?
@sweetloveforeve (13116)
Portugal
September 14, 2010 5:21pm CST
hi guys^^ imagine that your lover tells you that he/she woke up and had a girl/boy beside him bcs he/she drank too much last night when went party with friends. do you forgive what he/she did? about me i wouldnt bcs even he was being honest he knew what could happen by going to drink so he could had avoided that so i wouldnt forget what he did. also that could happen again. what about you guys? would you just forget? please share^^

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@fherfher (259)
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
Hi sweetloveforeve, i think am having these habit answering your question over here. Which i really love to.Hahahaha. Pretty tough question, eh? But i guess, i will, but, he needs to prove to me that its only an accident and it's not his fault. I feel hurt and cheated but i know everyone commit a mistake. So i guess, i can forgive him.
@sweetloveforeve (13116)
• Portugal
15 Sep 10
aww thanks so muchy for like my discussions^^ thanks so muchy^^ you would forgive him? thats so sweet of you^^ i think i couldnt bcs he knew what he was doing but i dont have a bf so.. anyway he told the truth and admit what happened so thats a good sign but still. could do that again right? and is hard if you lose trust to keep with that person. anyway it just shows you are a good person that you would forgive him^^ anyway wish it doesnt happen^^ thanks for your answer^^ and please answer my discussions^^
@jerikjames (1041)
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
No, I don't think I can just let that pass. I think I'll break up with her if something like that happened to her. Yeah, maybe she didn't want it, but she wanted to get drunk. I also don't believe that you can't control your actions when you're drunk. I've gotten drunk myself a lot of times, and I'm still aware of my actions, and I still have control over my consciousness. That's why I don't agree on being drunk as an excuse to what she just did.
Of course, I will be able to forgive her eventually. But that doesn't mean that we would still be together. Luckily, my girlfriend isn't the kind of person who goes out and drinks with her friends. She's not even the type who goes out at all. She just wants to stay at home. She's also the kind of person who knows her limits, knows exactly what she wants and stand for it, and who doesn't get influenced easily. 
Of course, I will be able to forgive her eventually. But that doesn't mean that we would still be together. Luckily, my girlfriend isn't the kind of person who goes out and drinks with her friends. She's not even the type who goes out at all. She just wants to stay at home. She's also the kind of person who knows her limits, knows exactly what she wants and stand for it, and who doesn't get influenced easily. 
@sweetloveforeve (13116)
• Portugal
15 Sep 10
aww yes so noone can use drink as an excuse if we have conscience of what we do^^ i just never got drunk so i heard people say sometimes that they dont know what they do so i thought maybe they didnt sometimes. anyway sure is not an excuse bcs everyone knows that cant drink much. anyway im happy that your gf doesnt do that^^ doesnt drink neither would ever do that^^ that just means she is responsible^^ and dont being influenced easily is a good thing^^ thanks for your answer^^ wish you be happy with your gf^^


