did your husband ever cheated on you???
By crisvizconde
@crisvizconde (3)
Philippines
September 14, 2010 10:43pm CST
what will you do when you found out that your husband is cheating on you?
2 responses
@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
15 Sep 10
Hi crisvizconde, I believe it's rather serious to use the word cheat lol...I think it is more suitable to write with the word lie 
I did tell lie to hide something from my loved one to avoid certain matter which might cause unhappy feeling to him. Therefore I believe there might be time he is not telling the truth due to certain reason as well. I think most of us still could tolerate the opposite not sharing all the private thing within the allowed extent. 
I would ask for divorce for sure if cheating of great amount of money as well as having any love affair stealthily 
Happy posting!
I did tell lie to hide something from my loved one to avoid certain matter which might cause unhappy feeling to him. Therefore I believe there might be time he is not telling the truth due to certain reason as well. I think most of us still could tolerate the opposite not sharing all the private thing within the allowed extent. I would ask for divorce for sure if cheating of great amount of money as well as having any love affair stealthily
Happy posting!@crisvizconde (3)
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
what if divorce is not applicable or legal in your country like mine.here in the philippines,divorce is not legal.and what if you have children or a kid?what will you do?
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@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
15 Sep 10
Anyway I always wish to see all the kids to get along with their parents happily under the same roof. It's sad that not all married person know to cherish what they possess and still doing things which exceed the bounds that would hurt the opposite side severely. Here still many women tolerate their husband to have another fancy woman outside just for the sake of their children. Some couldn't live without the husband who is the only breadwinner of the family. Nowadays the rate of divorce tends to increase due to the
open minded and many women try to stand on their own legs and refuse to live with the husband who is unfaithful to their marriage. I agree that parent family children won live as fortunate as parents family. And this is the
social problem nowadays.
@chitchat (179)
• United States
15 Sep 10
My husband has never cheated on me but if he ever did, I think I'd leave. The trust is gone and it will never come back. The problem is I have a really good memory, where I remember everything about the situation--including any negative feeling associated with it. So it's like if I think about a bad memory, the anger comes back as if it had just happened. I'm the master of holding grudges and I know I need a lot of help in that area. so, yeah, I wouldn't forgive or forget if my husband cheated on me. Someone that insensitive and selfish and egotistical does not deserve to be in my life--or anyone else's for that matter. (Clearly, I feel very strongly about this.)
