what about the relationship between u and ur mother in law?

@Jailey (107)
China
September 16, 2010 10:30pm CST
Now many people thought therelationship between mother-in-law&daughter-in-law is not good, but I do not think so, for no matter she is the mom of my husband or mine, we just need to show our true love for them, and just do much more communication with them, I think that will be ok, for we also have so misunderstanding with our mother, the most important thing we should do is try to understand and communicate. I am a friend of my mother-in-law now Hope more mother-in-law & daughter-in-law can be good friends!
6 responses
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
17 Sep 10
The tension between a mother in law and daughter in law is sometimes inevitable. We should understand that since we were brought up differently, things are seen at different perspectives. What we only need to do is to meet halfway. then things will be going on smoothly.
@Jailey (107)
• China
17 Sep 10
Yeah, I agree with u. Have a nice day!
@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
17 Sep 10
You are lucky then. Many have mothers in law who want to have all the attention of the sons, mothers in law who have to have the first priority then the wives, who do not let go of sons who are now having their own family.
@Jailey (107)
• China
17 Sep 10
yeah, that do happen, may be they just love their son too much, and are used to be together with their son, just wish all the daughter-in-law& mather-in-law can be friends! Also wish u my dear friend happy all the time!
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
17 Sep 10
oh, i think my in laws (would be in laws) are nice... my bf's mom and dad are just pretty silent, very talkative and are accomodating... i think i will not have problems dealing with them. :D
• United States
17 Sep 10
My mother-in-law is complete garbage. I haven't seen or spoken to her in over 4 years and I fully intend to keep in that way. She's just scum. Same goes for the rest of my in-laws. They're toxic waste and not worth my time in any way.
@KateVonP (172)
• United States
17 Sep 10
I am not married but I would hope whenever that happens that my husbands mother would like me. I would feel so awkward if they didn't. I mean you can usually tell before you are married whether they like you or not. I am a pretty quiet person and I respect everyone so I would hope they would like me.
@Jailey (107)
• China
17 Sep 10
Believe they will! Wish u happy!
@ZeXyRech (38)
18 Sep 10
Yeah. I hope so. It's really hard when you're not friends with your mother-in-law. Been there. (we're not yet married but treated ourselves as couples). now, the only thing that my boyfriend wants is for me to be friend with his mother again. And it's so hard for me because his mom doesn't even want to see me. I invited her for a dinner twice and she always refuse. I sent her a gift on her birthday, she thanked me and that's it (on a text message). We used to be close friends before.. It's really bad when other people tells bad things about you behind your back after all the good things you've done to them. My boyfriend's relatives were like that. I was so nice to them but then, I just knew that they're telling bad things about me to my mother-in-law.