How to enjoy life without stress and worries and sadness?

India
September 17, 2010 1:15am CST
i want to try to enjoy life, without any stress. i know, you get stress, but i have a lot. to much for my age. and i don't want to have any worries. or sadness. so how do i enjoy life? i mean, all i do is sit at home because my parents don't let me go anywhere, and my friends don't invite me places and i have nobody in my neighborhood and my house is boring. so any fun things to do? and how to enjoy life?
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@Chengran (60)
• China
17 Sep 10
Well, from your expression, I know that your are a easygoing person.RIGHT?I think you should be more open and invite your friends to play or study with you.And Sometimes,we should use the individual time to study,because quite environment is a good place to study.SO,happy everyday.
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@wiwa05 (230)
• Philippines
17 Sep 10
Let's make this simple.. There's NO perfect life here on earth. If you believe that there's such thing or someone who have 'perfect' life, then you're WRONG! You're only fooling yourself to believe that and to believe what others say... Life is NOT perfect but live it, enjoy it, and spend it with your loved ones... Life is TOO short so don't WASTE it! ^_^
• United States
17 Sep 10
why is it that things work 0ut 4 some people d way they want it and to some life is cruel and unkind.wat i normally get is not really what i always want.
@derek_a (10874)
19 Sep 10
I would say that everything in this material world is subject to duality - that is happiness cannot be known if there was no sadness, goodness could not be known unless there was badness, light with dark, depth without height. It is the nature of things. If was are to try and only manifest one, it won't be possible, because the opposite is bound to manifest sooner or later. I am Zen practitioner and the object of our practice it so become centred so that we are feeling neither extreme of one thing without the other. It can though, take many years in meditation practice. _Derek
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
20 Sep 10
Enjoying life is not only to go anywhere with friends or family. Enjoying life is a kind of fulfillment and contentment in life. There are many ways you can enjoy your life. If you enjoy to mylot and like so much. That is enough but if you want more excitement find someone that loves you...that is another... Find your interest...that will be the most to enjoy life. Have a great day!
19 Sep 10
wow. it sounds so terrible. why not your parents let you go anywhere? how old are you? maybe we can make friend yes?
@pkushwaha (223)
• India
19 Sep 10
you always try to be happy ,celeberate every moment and success of life ,downplay negative things ,that is the way to enjoy life ,thanks for sharing.
@34momma (13882)
• United States
19 Sep 10
the best way to live a stress free happy life is to just do it. you have to just go out there and not take everything so seriously and so personal. you need to make time for yourself and learn to laugh... just be happy.. no matter what is going on.. just allow yourself to be happy
@demian55 (14)
• Spain
18 Sep 10
I think that first is to convince your parents that you don't go to anywhere evil. Go to sites that your parents like. Gain his confidence yourself. After that you will be in advantage. Be water my friend, you have all the time!
@SilverKing (1003)
• Canada
17 Sep 10
I would say that everyone should try to enjoy life the best they can an to not stress over things.People should live day to day and not worry about what will happen the next day, well i don't mean don't think at all about it buy don't make it the thing that you think abount all day.When I get stressed out I try to take a deep breath and to think about the fact that lots of people have it worse than i have it some much worse and to be proud to life in such a free country.
• China
17 Sep 10
Hello,sauravshrm,first of all,I want to ask you about your age,I have on any thinkings.I just want to know the reason of the behave of your parents.Are you a student who are studying?If the answer is right.I think your parents just want you study hard.If not,I will feel puzzle. For the idea,you hope you will enjoy life without any stress,any worries or sadness,here,I am sorry to say it is unpossible.When I was a little girl,I had the same idea with you.Now,I dont have the idea.I think the stress ,worriea or sadness even fail are the necessary parts of the life.Because they like the four seasons.there are beautiful flowers and at the same time there are cold winner.In my opinion, the all kinds of unlucky things giveour baskfull lives . So I hope you will face them and became happier and happier.
• Bulgaria
17 Sep 10
As much as we want no life without stress worry and sadness.They have them and will have a lifetime.The question is whether we manage to free himself from them.Life is too short and you should enjoy it with full strength than otherwise
@chaoz674 (79)
• Philippines
17 Sep 10
You must learn to seek your real happiness by limiting your desires rather than in attempting to satisfy them..
@chaoz674 (79)
• Philippines
17 Sep 10
You must learn to seek your real happiness by limiting your desires rather than in attempting to satisfy them..
@chaoz674 (79)
• Philippines
17 Sep 10
WORK like you don't need the money... DANCE as if no one's watching.. LOVE like you won't get hurt.. that's how you enjoy life..
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
17 Sep 10
Hi Sauravshrm, You are only 21! that is way too young to be all stressed out about life. Life is full of ups and downs. It's just how it is. You have to be strong and deal with the bad knowing that it isn't all bad and embrace the good things. You have to get out of your house and do things that make you happy and make you feel good about yourself and your life. At age 21 your parents should not be stopping you from getting out and doing some things. If they are then maybe it would help if you sat them down and talked them??
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
17 Sep 10
Our lives are going to be filled with times of stress and worry and often sadness too. We can't let this stop us from enjoying life. If we focus on the negative things in life, we can't appreciate the positive ones. Don't let life pass you by because of your fears. Take each day as it comes and enjoy life!
@dhysanne (449)
• Philippines
17 Sep 10
I don't agree that your house is boring. I was like that before. But the best thing to do since you're just in your house is contribute with the household chores. I know you're a guy, but that's the best thing you can do to help your parents. Two hours cleaning in the morning or collecting things that you can fix is worth spending time.
@thesids (22180)
• Bhubaneswar, India
17 Sep 10
This is serious Saurav. Just if that is not too personal - why dont your parents allow you out and why dont your friends invite you with them? Accepting all that, it is a situation like me - I am forced to stay at home because of my illness all day long and it is been quite a long time this way. Initially I was too feeling very bad about this but I had to accept it as a reality and for me there is no way out/escaping. So here is what I did - I started making online friends, used my skills to train students(I have been a trainer in Computers ever since I started my career), started chasing my hobbies that I could not have done otherwise. a Friendly suggestion - It is your life and you should find out what best you you can give to it under your circumstances. People would come, sympathize, preach, even tell you that it is miserable to be in such a situation and many things like that... But only some would show you the path and Whether to walk that path or not is your decision. Take Care... Sids
@dccell (337)
• Indonesia
17 Sep 10
is that really happen that your parent don`t allow you to go out and always wanting you to be at home doing nothing? if you meant they don`t allow you to go out at night it seem that they love you much and trying to protect you from a bad populations out there, me I always discuss everything with my parent since i was in middle school. my suggestion to you : make some friend at school or in your area and try to joint any good community , i believe you will find something interesting in some community and group just choose some good one not a group which may lead you into trouble. thanks and happy day
• Philippines
17 Sep 10
Life can't be without stress, worries and sadness. It's part of the package. May I know how old are you and why your parents won't allow you to go out? I bet you're of legal age already since you stated that stress, etc. "is too much for YOUR age". Don't you have any work? If you're always at home doing nothing productive then maybe that stresses you. If you at least have some work then maybe it'll keep you off those things that will worry you. Fun things to do are only fun when you're interested on it. So start by thinking of the things that are interesting for you then from there you could do something. If you're always in myLot and doing something in the net then you could SEARCH for fun things to do. Good luck!