miss you friend....

@shibham (16977)
India
September 17, 2010 1:35am CST
hi everyone... hope all of you are fine. 1. its sure that in this life we have missed someone in a moment. do you wish to share about the person of your life. i missed two... one was my friend DEEP who died in an accident and another one is also my friend DHARMISTHA who died in viral infection. so what about you? 2. as we are active in a social forum here (mylot),, so have you ever missed any friends in mylot? i have missed lots of friend..who were highly active in mylot and always maintained a good friendship even we mailed each other but now a days they are totally absent in mylot. i missed them all. so what about you? please share. thanks in advance.
4 people like this
20 responses
@chaitra001 (3278)
• Bangalore, India
18 Sep 10
Hi shibham.. how are you.. I missed one of my childhood friend dhanalakshmi.. because of her husband's foolishness we lost her.. he was having an affair with some other lady so my friend could not bear the cheating from her husband she tried to commit sucide 3 times and she suceeded 3rd time.. first two time she took sleeping pills so her parents could save her but 3rd time she hanged herself so we lost her.. I miss her very much.. and also some of friends are not able to participate in mylot on regular basis.. even i miss them too..
2 people like this
@shibham (16977)
• India
23 Sep 10
yes in india.... pre mature marriage is not a matter of consideration at all. mainly in rural areas. i know.
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
18 Sep 10
Yes I do Miss One, when ever I am Alone.the One whom I loved from my heart or Who, if She would be in my life Life could be different.But Sometimes You dont get Everything you desire.
2 people like this
@shibham (16977)
• India
18 Sep 10
hi jagjit.... its so sad friend. my sympathies are always with you. anyway where is she now? have a nice day.
• Pamplona, Spain
17 Sep 10
Hiya shibham, Miss them. I have lots of Family that I miss that are no longer with me. Friends also that I lost because they passed over. There are a few on mylot that I miss too. I have´nt heard much from them lately but I suppose they have their Life to live like everyone else. They could have found a Job that occupies all their time. When they want to they will be back you can be sure of that. In the meantime we are all talking to you on here are´nt we? Have a great weekend shibham take care now.
@shibham (16977)
• India
17 Sep 10
hi angel... yes, i have also my grand parents that i have missed a lot as from my family. yes, we are talking but as i have seen u become absent for days here in mylot. i don't know exactly why? but i miss you when your valuable posts don't come to my discussions. take care you too and yes have a great weekend as well.
1 person likes this
@shibham (16977)
• India
4 Oct 10
Hi angel, yeah, some friend mylotters asked to put my real pic as avatar so i am. I think according to all of our busy schedules we miss each other a lot. Yes, all the grandparents are the treasury of stories,riddles and so on which mean too much valuable for our future. Have a nice day.
• Pamplona, Spain
3 Oct 10
Hiya shibham, See that you have changed your avatar again. That´s you I can see in that one very nice. It´s sad to lose one´s Grandparents so early in life as there is so much to learn from them and we need them too. They love us and give us treats and tell us Stories as well.
1 person likes this
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
17 Sep 10
I miss a few, Shiby. They seem to be too busy to come here and have some fun. But, that is life, we cannot always have it our own way, unfortunately. TATA.
1 person likes this
@shibham (16977)
• India
17 Sep 10
hi saphie... very true... thats the life where in and out is an universal truth. thanks and have a nice day.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
17 Sep 10
Sometimes i think we care to fast and too much about people we do not really know, sweetie. That is wrong actually. Hope you enjoy it on the farm. I need a break like that.
1 person likes this
@shibham (16977)
• India
17 Sep 10
hi rich... yes, that is totally inevitable. but its also true that sometimes cyber friends become more closer than a real friend.. i mean a friend who is familiar to us... but when a cyber friend disappear without any prior information... then it really hurts. yes... that type of thoughts always come to my mind when i find my friends absence. hope, i will miss u a lot if u will also become absence for your works. @ saphie...hope we never miss each other. hahaha @meluan... hope that meluan will be always with us. just remind my pms.
• Vietnam
18 Sep 10
In mylot, I do not have many friend but in the life I miss my old friends a lot. They are living in different countries from me. We both shared the same wonderful time together. I wish I could come back but "I cannot". Just keep them in my mind and wish for them the best
1 person likes this
@shibham (16977)
• India
19 Sep 10
welcome to mylot..... yes, we often have to miss our friends due to various reasons but its better to being nostalgic and keeping them on minds. have a nice day.
@shibham (16977)
• India
19 Sep 10
U r welcome. Will u be my friend?
• Vietnam
19 Sep 10
thank you for your comment. Best wishes!
1 person likes this
@ergfortes (516)
• Philippines
17 Sep 10
i miss my mom. She's already with God in heaven. she had been very supportive of me in everything i do. I'm the only daughter in the family so i've grown to be too much close to her. both of us loves singing, she's actually the one who taught me how to sing. i miss her so much, how she takes care of everything in the house though she'd still have to go to the office and work, how she listen to my every story when i go home from school, how she cooks our favorite dishes, i miss everything about her. :(
@shibham (16977)
• India
17 Sep 10
ohhh... dear. it a is really a sad news that i have ever faced in mylot. i can understand what may run in a daughter's mind if she has lost her mother in her very early age. as its a universal truth.. we must have to accept it.. although i have my mother now but i am damn sure that she is also about to leave me one day... so there is no second path except living without their existence. take care. just be friend and hope we will try to make you happy,.. take care. have a great day.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
17 Sep 10
I am sorry to hear that you have lost two of your friends in premature deaths. May their souls rest in peace. I missed many friends here in mylot who have either left for good or are temporarily unavailable. I guess this is life in the virtual world where there is no permanency in friends we meet. Do enjoy the bonds while we are interacting here. Cheers!!!
1 person likes this
@shibham (16977)
• India
17 Sep 10
hi zandi... although there is no permanency, yet we get connected closely with some specials here in mylot. i always miss them and send pm asking their problems because its hard to forget someone with whom my interactions had run effectively. take care.
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
18 Sep 10
Hello Shibham, Missing friends in real life… I think, like me, my friends are busy with their married life. I hardly complaint to anybody for not contacting because I know how hectic is my life, but I always remember even my childhood friends. Missing online friends… I have friends from mylot only.. some got busy with their life and hardly coming in mylot…. I really miss them…. I am sorry to know the tragedies with your friends… really hard….
1 person likes this
@shibham (16977)
• India
19 Sep 10
hi sree..... i think most of us are looser from this aspect of life. u know... now, i have a few friends from my college and university life ( hard to say reliable friend as i don't share all of my thoughts)... most of them are married and busy with their own families. yeah.... me too. i have also friends from mylot only... have a nice day.
1 person likes this
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
17 Sep 10
Hi. shibham. I miss a two great friends of mines. They are two females. One of them I was best friends with in middle school. She was so very nice to me when others weren't. She used to make me so many creative designs at her home. She would bring them back to school so that I could have them. My other friend I met when I was working a customer service job. We met while I was in training. She was so sweet! I was on facebook and there was a girl that looked just like her. She had the same first and last name as she did too. But this girl was not her. I miss these two friends so very much! The first girl moved to Mexico with her and her family. We have not seen each other in over 20 years. I miss both of my great friends!
1 person likes this
@shibham (16977)
• India
18 Sep 10
hi cream.... but chances are still there to meet them although u have already passed 20 years but me... i shall not ever meet them in this life. i know its hard to live without someone who was too close to our hearts.. but that's the life. have a nice day.
• Singapore
17 Sep 10
Life is constantly changing and so are people, sometimes we get so busy that we do not meet one another for months. We do have gatherings from time to time and then we have a good time and try to catch up on what has been happening since we last met. The feeling is good when we do that.
1 person likes this
@shibham (16977)
• India
17 Sep 10
hi moon... you are very right..but just a question... what would you feel if i never respond to your discussion? hahaha... me, i always seek my friends responses to my discussions but if i don't get then... i miss them...
@shibham (16977)
• India
20 Sep 10
I dont wisk to see an angry face of moon as moon is lightening the mylot. Take care.
• Singapore
20 Sep 10
If you don't respond, I will give you a face.... Being very busy people, it is sometimes hard to arrange a common time for everybody to meet up together. Sometimes it is possible to do for small groups.
1 person likes this
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
17 Sep 10
i have just recently joined mylot and i have no friends here yet that i can call. but what i could share with you is how much i miss my high school friends. i miss them a lot coz we rarely have the time to be with together especially when i got married. i was sort of restrained from doing things like that. smetimes, when i do miss them a lot, i would just cry, coz eventhough how much i would want to join them, i just can't.
1 person likes this
@shibham (16977)
• India
18 Sep 10
hope u will be active from now...
@shibham (16977)
• India
17 Sep 10
hi jenny, kumutsa ka?... welcome to mylot. just after reading your response... i have checked your profile.. but there are some friends in your profile... hahaha... don't cry.... just be my friend dear amiga and hope there is no chance to cry again. salamat. take care.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
17 Sep 10
yeah, you saw there are 2 people in my list but i really havent had the chance to have a chat chat with them. i have just been active really since yesterday.
1 person likes this
18 Sep 10
i only have one friend in here so far, im very new to mylot and still trying to understand how things work but would like to get to meet some new friends on here.
1 person likes this
@shibham (16977)
• India
18 Sep 10
Just add me as your friend and be sure my helpful and reliable hands still exist. Take care.
• Bulgaria
17 Sep 10
My best friend lives and works in another city= We have no time to go to the guests and we have not see the 3 years.It`s like my alder sister and definitely pretty much miss
1 person likes this
@shibham (16977)
• India
17 Sep 10
hi desita.. ohhh... that is the cause. its really a matter of missing someone so closed to us. hope both of you will meet each other very soon. take care.
@Hannah10 (83)
• Philippines
17 Sep 10
I really,really miss my only one best friend,I left her 1 year ago in the states,,we are now in different country!I need to left her go back home here in the Philippines for my family,,,yes we have communication but it is not enough for me...I miss you Cassandra
1 person likes this
@shibham (16977)
• India
17 Sep 10
ohhh... u miss your cassandra. perhaps if she is alert about mylot then definitely she will run to meet you. but exactly what she is doing in abroad? i think there is no one to replace her from your mind but hope i can give a try as a friend. what do u think? take care.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
18 Sep 10
I lost my sweet Friend Carol on March 1st this year I was heartbroken and also it just happened, I could not get over it for a while and still now I think of her and I miss her on IM and also talking to her on the Phone
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
18 Sep 10
I suppose the person that I miss the most at this point is my grandmother. We were estranged for many years before reuniting and we had five wonderful close years together before she passed. She was the only family that I had. It's not so much the family aspect of it as much as she become my closest friend. I miss her horribly. As far as my myLot friends..I too have many friends I have made on her that have become inactive that I miss. Take care.
@shibham (16977)
• India
19 Sep 10
hi jen... yeah.... my both grandmothers are also passed away.... but we were not in a family, ... yet, i missed them all. my grand mother from my mom side was a teacher and i learned a lot from her as well as she was my financial bank.... and my father side grand mom was a story teller...whom, i missed a lot. yeah.... most of our old friends in mylot are inactive. hope they will return very soon to join us. have a nice day..
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
20 Sep 10
hello shibham! at this very moment, i am missing a lot of people in my life that makes me feel sad at times. the first one that i miss is my family (mom, dad and my brother) im not seeing them for more than a year no and im really missing them a lot, in fact i can't wait for december to come to be with them again. next that i am missing is my grandmother who passed away almost 6 years ago. i just miss everything about her. i also miss my friends before and the things that we used to do, its just a consolation that i was still able to talk to them even for a while through facebook. and here in mylot, i am also missing most of my friends, i miss the good conversations and everything. it looks like most of us are kinda busy with other stuffs that's why out mylot time is also lessen. but even if i am not always here, or as not able to respond to some or most of my friend's discussions, it doesn't mean that i forgot them already, in fact im always visiting the site even if i don't post just to check on my friend's activities. miss you yaar!
@ckyera (17332)
• Philippines
20 Sep 10
ok then i will be waiting...
@shibham (16977)
• India
23 Sep 10
well ckyera, i think missing a family is really misfortune as i also have to miss them due to my job. by the way, where do u live now? i mean how many distances are there? there were some persons who were attached with my life in past. as you, i also missed them all. sometimes, i miss you too as u become inactive for a long period here in mylot? are there any information about acie.. i mean sunset? curious to know. have a nice day.
@shibham (16977)
• India
20 Sep 10
Just wait. I have to write a long to u but i am just typing through cellphone.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
20 Sep 10
I have added more people in my profile as friends. But no one of them threat me as friend...I add them because I like them to be my friend. But when I message them...no one will reply...so, I don't think I have missed someone here if not logging in a few days ago... Have a great day!
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
21 Sep 10
I can't remember my friend. But whatever for that I want to thank you for reminding me. Not invisible my friend. Not just inactive in a few months, because I need to try some online jobs also for additional income... Now, I have those good earning site. I'm here again for additional income to what I get today.. Have a great day!
@shibham (16977)
• India
23 Sep 10
hope we will not miss you again.
@shibham (16977)
• India
20 Sep 10
Hi dear. We were to close here months ago but suddenly u become invisible. Missed u. By the way, i have not received any message from u. So? Have a nice day.
@meri333 (12)
• Bulgaria
17 Sep 10
no response -I am
@shibham (16977)
• India
17 Sep 10
yes... meluan. i haven't understood what she/he is?
@babyanna (1216)
• China
17 Sep 10
Hi,shibham! I'm so sorry to hear that you've lost two of your friends.I don't miss my friends very much,because they are close to me.And for the friends far away,we always call or text each other.So it's like they are always around me. I do miss some of my Mylot friends,though.They are very helpful and kind.But sometimes I can't see them often.Maybe because we all have some personal stuff to handle.So yeah,I miss them. Have a wonderful day!
1 person likes this
@shibham (16977)
• India
17 Sep 10
hi babyanna... then you are lucky enough.. they are just instances of persons that i have missed... there are too many persons in my life. i think i need to be your friend. what do u think? great day to you too. take care/