Will she ever back off ?!
By jess07
@jess07 (319)
September 17, 2010 5:04pm CST
Hi everyone,
so first of all, i haven't been on here for a while but i'm back =D
And already i need some advice ! Ok, so i've been with my new boyfriend ( to know about my ex read some old topics and you should understand why that didn't work lol) and anyway everything is great... except one thing... His ex girlfriend. Let me explain, they broke up a year ago and we got together a few months ago. But she still loves him, whereas he has got over her and does not love her anymore. The only problem being that everytime we go out with friends she is there and becomes very jealous and does everything to annoy me. I have had many nasty looks and glares, i have also been ignored which i don't mind. But she has also gone as far as sitting purposly on the other side of him and trying to draw his attention. She has sat there looking lovingly at him and even touched other men in a flirting manner while looking at my boyfriend.
I completely trust my boyfriend and do not doubt of his loyalty but i am starting to see her as a threat and feel uneasy around her as i have heard that once while drinking she lashed out at a girl who went near him whereas they were not together anymore.
I worry that she is putting a strain on the relationship when we are out. How can I overcome this ? Have you ever been through something similar ?
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3 responses
@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
18 Sep 10
Discuss it with your boy friend. Then make a point that whenever she is where you are with you boy friend, leave the place with your boyfriend in tow. Do this again and again in front of her friends, so eventually she will be the outcast amongst her friends. Ugh, I sound so petty.
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@jess07 (319)
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19 Sep 10
Hi,
Lol, we've discussed quite a lot, i know that i mustn't worry, my relationship is safe, but i just don't trust HER. But i've already made a point of smiling at her every time she gives me a dirty look, it's a very petty attitude i know but it annoys her so much and relaxes me ! lol .
Thanks for your response !
Jess
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
17 Sep 10
She evidenttly does not care about either of you as if she were a kind caring person she wouldn't interfere.
You make sure you make it clear that you are not going anywhere so she is totally wasting her time.
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@jess07 (319)
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19 Sep 10
Hi,
No i don't think she cares much about me, but i do believe she really does still love him , but she needs to realise that it's over and that he has moved on. We are very happy together and we have talked it over and i know he loves me.
Thanks for your response, don't worry this girl is going nowhere =D
Jess
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
17 Sep 10
Hi. jess07. She will never back off! She wants to torture both you and your boyfriend. She is just trying to annoy you by doing these little dirty things. Stay away from her as far as possible. She is just trying to start trouble with you. She wants to tear your relationship apart. Don't give her the satisfaction to!
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