away from your lover

@rhinarea (311)
September 18, 2010 5:46am CST
It's been a long time since i last visited mylot i've been very busy lately and now i'm going to share to you guys what has been up to me this past few days. 2 days ago my boyfriend leave the country hopefully to have a work in Singapore it's been really hard for me because most of the time we always see each other and hangout its very hard we've been together for so long and i'm not used to this kind of long distance relationship but still we have to be very brave and independent for now on because if he will be hired there he wont be able to go back here with me for what i guess for 2 years thats hard really hard i don't know if were gonna be able to last, i'm scared of being alone but i'm hoping this is for the best What you guys think have you been in a situation like this share it to me thanks.
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@ergfortes (516)
• Philippines
18 Sep 10
i'm in the almost same situation. Me and my boyfriend are also miles apart. He's in Syria now taking care of family business. We're also unsure up to when we will not be with each other but we're definite that we'll stay loving each other no matter the distance. it isn't easy especially when you get used of his company, having him near you. i can't say i've outgrown it already but we make it a point to always communicate. We chat and see each other on the web every other day after his work. when we talk, we talk about all things happening to us. We keep an honest and trusty relationship by being open to each other. I'm sure you can survive that.
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@iamdee (158)
• Philippines
19 Sep 10
Currently, I am in a long distance relationship. Actually we really began in a long distance relationship. My boyfriend and I are going strong for 2 years now. In our relationship I learned the importance of trust and fidelity. It really depends on the lovers if they choose to stay faithful or not. Distance should never be blamed for a failed long distance affair because it is the lovers' choice to do something which is not right. All of us are endowed with a gift to know what is right from wrong. I do believe that long distance relationship is capable of writing a happy ending.
@blueblink (246)
• Philippines
19 Sep 10
i've been in same situation but in less duration of time. i know it is hard, very hard. but you must have faith to your boyfriend. consistent communication is needed for you to be strong even in a long distance relationship
@bounce58 (17439)
• Canada
19 Sep 10
That's just life. It's been a difficult time lately, with all the recession, and having to find jobs. It is unfortunate that your bf has to go to Singapore to find employment. But don't worry, if your love is strong, you'll make it. And I'm sure that wherever life will take you, you'll find yourself a better person for it. Goodluck!
• Philippines
19 Sep 10
That's hard for me. but I should trust my lover.
@misheli (552)
• Philippines
18 Sep 10
Well you have to accept it because he's there sacrificing for your future. My husband is also away from us he is in US right now working in the casino. We have 3 kids so it's really hard for me my kids and for my husband to be apart from each other.
@jenny1015 (13369)
• Philippines
18 Sep 10
i know how you feel. but just be strong and hold on to that love you have.
@jonnifc (1017)
• Philippines
18 Sep 10
Long distance relationships (LDR) are hard work. It's so hard to adjust to not seeing your partner everyday. To not be able to hug him or hold his hand. It's tough. My LDR isn't as tough as yours since we can still see each other once a month. You've got a lot of crying ahead of you, my friend. Missing your partner will make you so sad. Thank heavens for technology because at least there's video chat, text, phone call. So many things to keep the connection between the two of you. They say distance makes the heart grow fonder. You two need to work extra hard to keep your relationship strong. Maybe you can save some money so that in a year, you can visit him in Singapore. He can help with the expenses, too. It will be a fun thing to visit him there. Cheer up! Your relationship will be ok! =)
@bagputza (504)
• Belgium
18 Sep 10
Good morning dear Rhinarea , ohh that is really a sad think to hear , i really hope that you have talked to your boyfriend , what you just told us here , since i believe that he needs to know also these types of things , well i was in the position of your boyfriend , and it did not worked out , because also my ex-girlfriend was scared to e left alone , and after three months of been gone , i have find out that she had cheated on me with my cousin , soo i dont really think that long distance relationships works out , maybe only if he will take you to him in Singapore , but the otherway , i really think it is verry hard to accomplish , well i have never been unfaithfull the time i was with her , but her she was WEAK and she still is in my eyes a WEAK person. I wish you good luck and trust him and have patience.