If you don't already have children, why is that?

Greece
September 19, 2010 6:53am CST
Is it because you don't feel ready yet? Because you're not financially stable? Maybe you just have medical issues or simply don't want children? Or you haven't found the ideal person to start a family with?
5 responses
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
25 Sep 10
Hi, I am a mother of one little boy. When I first got my pregnancy confirmation, I was bit shocked and feel excited..I was going to be a mother soon. I was kept asking myself whether I am ready for it,entering a motherhood life. As for financial, we are ready for it,but we have to prepare mentally and physically for the arrival of our baby. I do understand that after the arrival of my baby, my OWN free time is getting lesser and I can't be that free like previously again. I have more responsibility and more burden into my life. However,since GOD has given me this precious ONE,why don't I just accept it and treasure it. Here comes my son and he is always my sunshine and my Precious ONE.
@jenny1015 (13366)
• Philippines
21 Sep 10
if it is taking you sometime to conceive, it is most probably that there are some certain underlying conditions which you need to know by seeking a medical help. but other times, because of too much stress nowadays, it is also considered as one cause of delayed pregnancy. i suggest, if you really want to have kids, to go seek a doctor and have him/her evaluate your medical conditions, both husband and wife. that way, it is no longer a puzzle to both of you of whether you will have a child in the future or not. good luck!!!
• Philippines
19 Sep 10
I am financially stable and no problem with the medical issues. I love children much and I am happy with my someone maybe it is not the right time yet that god will provide us an angle... Having a child it will come right time you cannot just ask now you have to wait... If gods will
• Quezon City, Philippines
20 Sep 10
in my case it's financial instability. if i just have the money, my hunny and i would have married, have kids, and start a family. we want a secure future for our kids-to-be so we're trying to plan first before jumping to the decision.
@jatessa (43)
• United States
20 Sep 10
im not ready to have kids simply becausee im stillin scholo and i am yet not married nor have i went to college