Non Smoking Section

Singapore
September 20, 2010 4:44pm CST
Are you parents of non smoking children? If you are, what have you done or how do you have children who DO NOT smoke? Or if you do not smoke yourself, why did you not start? Arent you pressured by your peers?
5 responses
• Canada
22 Sep 10
Where I live smoking is considered digusting and rude. It is rude to fill the lungs of those around you with poison when they are just trying to enjoy their lives. Here, there is a lot of peer pressure not to smoke, and smokers are ostracized. It is becoming illegal to smoke in more and more places. In my city you may not smoke in your car if children are in your car, or you get a large fine, and soon my entire city will be smoke free (the only place you can smoke is in your home, nowhere in public, not even outside.)
• Singapore
23 Sep 10
OMG its non smoking heaven where you are. Where I am which is Singapore, they (the goverment) are trying to do that too, to not let people smoke in more and more places. But it does not seem to be working with the young people when they consider smoking to be 'cool'. I suppose its the mindset that has to be changed. Like you said, 'it is rude to fill the lungs of those around you with poison ...' I think that is exactly the mindset we here should adopt.
• Singapore
23 Sep 10
Thanks for your response!!
@CJscott (4187)
• Portage La Prairie, Manitoba
21 Sep 10
Never liked it, never started. Lots of reasons, mostly the smell. One kid tried to hardcore pressure me, with physical violence, but I just stopped hanging out with that crowd, the rest of the kids, finally pulled him off, when the realized that my will to resist, was stronger then their will to influence. Teach by example, and explain the pros and cons, focus on the money and the health, and the fact that they spend more on tic tacs then on smokes so girls/boys still want to kiss them, or maybe at one point just accept it, they will do what ever they want in the end anyways. Cheers.
• Singapore
23 Sep 10
Aww dun say that they will do what they want in the end anyways.. I want to be in control!! Maybe you should stop by that (stupid) kid and wave all the money you save by not smoking. I cant understand why they continue smoking when theres no benefit at all (except to 'look cool'). All the money spent and not to mention the spots they put in their lungs.
• Singapore
23 Sep 10
Thanks for your response!
• Philippines
1 Oct 10
My eldest is only 13 years old going 14, and doesn't express the likelihood of being a smoker someday. I have tried smoking (not pressured by peers) when he's just a toddler, and never smoke when he's around, I never get to like it that much, so I stopped.
• Singapore
4 Oct 10
Ahh can I assume that you were curious to what it is like to smoke? Glad that you stop. I dun smoke and I have not tried. Now you got me curious too. What does it feel like? Does it clear your mind or something?
@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
23 Sep 10
Hi, Both me and my husband are non smoker. We both don't like when people are smoking near us,we just can't take the smell of smoking. Somemore,smoking is totally not good for health. For sure, I won;t allow my son to smoke in future. I never think of trying how to smoke.No interest to try it out as it may not do good to my health too.
• Singapore
24 Sep 10
It is definitely not good for the health. Especially terrible for ladies. Like you said, the clothes will also smell. And to remind you that the teeth will stain and it will age your face prematurely. Thats why I want to gather tips as to how to steer my children away from smoking. It seems from the response I got here is that self confidence plays a big part. No matter how they are peer pressured, they just dun care what others think. I suppose you and your husband are that way also. Its good that your son will have such good role models to follow. Thanks for your response!!
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
30 Sep 10
I am a smoker and my husband is as well. I know that for me the reason that I started smoking was actually peer pressure, it didn't matter at all to me that my parents were smokers. It was more that the people that I hung out with as a young adult were smokers. That said, with two children of my own, I'm really trying to quit smoking and I also make sure that my children know that it isn't a healthy decision and I would be really happy if they didn't make that decision for themselves.
• Singapore
1 Oct 10
All the more you should stop smoking, that you have two children that are stil dependent on you. I know one thing that will work is to think about your children. When at times when I am in the wrong, I could not reverse what that has been done I will admit my mistake. For example, I need to wear glasses so when I see them reading in the dark or things like that, I will tell how wearing glasses is so cumbersome. Hopefully they will learn that they can better themselves by our mistakes, yes?