My father is not the most wonderful dad...

Vietnam
September 23, 2010 11:35pm CST
Yes, it's right. My father is not the most wonderful dad. But he has always cared us following the best ways which he can. When i was a child, I often hate my dad because this or that things. Now, when i am a girl, I know that he love me how much. And I know that I love him too.
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@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
24 Sep 10
I thought my father was not the most wonderful dad before because i don't feel his love for us..but when i got older i did understand him already and i learned that he is not the type of dad that likes to show his emotions to his daughters. And now i can say that he is trying to be the best and most wonderful dad ever..
• Vietnam
24 Sep 10
Fathers are not good in to impress their feelings. So, When We were children, we think that they don't love us. But when we grown up, we'll think different.
@Ramaditya (1227)
• Indonesia
24 Sep 10
Moon is beautiful, but it is not ours to keep. Sun is awesome, but it is not ours to have. But, there is something more than those. That is what we have, and I believe, that is what makes your dad so wonderful. Because you have him, and not others.
• Vietnam
24 Sep 10
That's right. I'm happy because I have him. I can't image how I can become if I don't have him in my life.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
25 Sep 10
Even do our father is not that good as you said. They are still our father, and they our love. It's hard to be a perfect father and being a parents is really difficult obligation. Hope you understand your father and be proud of him...
• United States
29 Sep 10
My biological father was never in my life...really long story. Didn't pay child support either. However, I lived with my grandparents (who are like 36-37 yrs older than me...LOL...another long story) for the first few yrs of life. Though my grandfather works crazy hours and never sat down to tell me the ways of the world, I love him just the same. In fact, tomorrow is his b-day. Over the years, I've learned little bits and pcs about my biological father. Never hated him though I once tried reaching out with no success. When I used to go to church, there was this one girl who used testimonial (when members speak individually to the congregation) time to say that she hated her father. He did not abuse her and in fact, she mentioned that he did take care of her and her son's needs. I thought, "Wow, how does a person do that?" Anyway, fast forward to now and word on the street is that when her family passed on, she lost her house (that father left for her) and is now homeless. Just a lesson about loving and not passing judgment when it comes those whose actions we may not initially understand.
• United States
29 Sep 10
Fatherhood has taken a bad rap lately; however, he's one of the most vital parts of the family, (I'm not saying this because I too am a dad), but I know what its like to be without one as a child. My mom was my dad too! I had to grow up w/o a father figure in my life; thankfully, Jesus taught me (and is still teaching me), how to be a 'great DAD'... Learn to forgive and move on, that way your relationship with him will be worthwile...I learned this early on in my walk with God and now, my dad and I have a great relationship
@rakadanda (100)
• United States
6 Oct 10
There is no father who hates his son, even a father as well before you were born you really, really want a quick birth, then after you have your dad would have loved him and will keep you.
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
24 Sep 10
I guess, we all have experienced the same. I can also say that my dad is not the most wonderful dad, but I still cannot change the fact that he remains to be my father forever. I may have hated him because there are things that I expect him to be, but that is who he is. I just accepted that he is like that. Now that I am also a young adult and do not depend on him, I still treat him the way a daughter treats her father.
• United Arab Emirates
24 Sep 10
My father is not the best at everything. But i know he is the best dad. I never had a good relationship with my dad. As a kid i was scared of him. But i have seen him closely for the last 20 days of his life in the hospital. And i realised how much he loved me. An i love him and miss him lots.
• India
24 Sep 10
i think My father is the most wonderful dad. i love my father and my father loves me. my father is a great person and i am lucky for my father. thanks for your sharing.
@bulbub (119)
• Philippines
24 Sep 10
My father is loving person, understanding and caring. He's the one who cooked for us. He's a nice cooked. I miss his cook. If he's angry he talked to you. That's my wonderful dad!