Relationship or one night stand?

Romania
September 24, 2010 10:54am CST
What do you prefer? a strong relationship based on trust and loyalty? or one night stands? or even open relationship with many one night stands, even though you have a partner at home? please explain your answer
10 responses
@Skade24 (749)
• Romania
1 Oct 10
I am the age i don`t have mood for games or for one night stand. I`m at the age i need stalibity, i prefer a strong relationship based on trust, love and affection, i really need someone there for me all the time, to understand and support me when it`s the case. I had some one night stand when i was younger, but not anymore.
• Romania
1 Oct 10
So you say this things are related on how old we are? when we are young we don't want commitment, just fun, and as we get older, we tend to look after commitment and serious relationship and when we want to have "fun", then only with that single person?
• Mumbai, India
25 Sep 10
Well I would definately prefer to have a few one-night stands considering that I am quite young. Besides I had always beeen honest in relationships but somehow they dint survive. Back Then I used to die for having a serious relationship and a loving sweet partner, unfortunately that never happened. So Now I feel that I should give a try to one-night stands, who knows I may find a life partner like some one who posted his story here :). Sometimes it sucks to be a virgin even at 24 :P. Why do girls have all the fun :D ? (kidding).
• Mumbai, India
25 Sep 10
Jonjee I agree long term relationship is a better and safe bet, But I already mentioned that, but unfortunately For me they haven't worked out :(. I was always a believer in long term relationship and I still do, But I won't mind going for a few one-night stands provided that I am single and don't have any relationship. I won't be cheating anyone for sure :).
@katland05 (136)
• Guam
29 Sep 10
rappeter hi... I would never in my life give myself for one night stands... When I give my body & my whole heart it's to my partner for long term relationship based on trust, loyalty, & love... I don't think I would have that respect for myself if it's one night stands, I would wake up the following morning hating myself, regret, shame & asking myself why I would I do this to myself... Have a great day mylot friends, great discussion....
@keshia2007r (2880)
• United States
1 Oct 10
I prefer a relationship. one night stands can turn into nothing but trouble. i've heard of so many people getting pregnant from one night stands. in the heat of the moment, no protection and the female is prego. the man denys that he is the father because it was an only one time thing and blah, blah. lol maybe i watch tv too much. but i honestly prefer a relationship. over a one night stand.
• United States
26 Sep 10
a strong relationship because most likely the one night stands you don't know what anyone have i like to stick to the same person i been getting it from.
• United States
26 Sep 10
I rather have someone to come home to with dinner set on the table, I tried that bachelor stuff but it never really was me. I always felt guilty afterwards, but Thank god I found someone woth settling down with lol
@kmaram (2533)
• Philippines
24 Sep 10
Ofcourse relationship, for me its more romantic than having a one night stand. I guess to others one night stand give satisfaction but its only for one night after that nothing special. Having a relationship is more romantic as i said and i guess its should be we need to exercise. I don't see myself having one night stand especially when i don't know the person at all, and beside love is more important than anything else so voted for relationship here.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
25 Sep 10
I prefer a relationship than one night stand. It is a bad thing to have a one night stand while you have partner in life...It is a sin to your partner and in front of God...
• Philippines
24 Sep 10
Simple, I would prefer a relationship with trust and loyalty. If you have a relationship with someone but still want to deal with one night stands then I will not consider it a relationship with love. It maybe a relationship but just for pleasure and lust but only.
• United Arab Emirates
24 Sep 10
I started my relation with my wife as a one night stand. We fell in love and got married. Falling in love with her has been the best thing that has happened to me.