Finding true love

Philippines
September 25, 2010 12:54am CST
I am a hopeless romantic. I told myself I'll only marry for love. Unfortunately I haven't met the "one" until now and I don't know if there is someone out there destined to be my lifetime partner. I once read in a book or article that "True love waits". I believed it then. But now I'm starting to ask myself, "Does true love really wait?"
9 responses
@fftwins (40)
• Pakistan
29 Sep 10
Dear, it's your right to wait for true love but don't wait for an ideal person because sometimes we misjudge these two things. Ideal is the one who has to be with some specific personality or characteristics which attract you the most. But true love is actually very pure thing which don't include anything materialistic. If someone loves you or someone you love then don't start thinking about anything else. True love is more valuable than anything. Moreover I believe if someone is waiting for someone so heartedly then he will definitely get that so Good Luck my dear!
@morgn010 (31)
• Egypt
29 Sep 10
hello friend i think you will find the love somewhere just be patient and search for it
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• United States
26 Sep 10
there is someone out there for everybody, and your soulmate is not always in the same town or country as you
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@blessyme (33)
• Philippines
26 Sep 10
Hi. Maybe this time you have to get out of your shell more often or all the time. No offense, make yourself more attractive to men. I mean don't shun mens' attention to you. Embtace their attention. Like if a man will smile at you, smile back at him letting him know that it's alright for him to approach you. Join organizations in which you think you can meet a lot of good prospects/good men. Like you can join a "run" activity or a church group. Go out with men for you to be able to know them better..and if in your first date he's not good enough, then don't go out with him again. You can also enroll in a gym to meet prospects. I believe a true love will soon come in his own time but there's nothing wrong if you'll meet him halfway. You cannot just sit there and wait for him.It's alright if you get to know them like what I said join in various groups that you'll going to meet and know a lot of men...good men.nd of course,pray for him to come along your way.Believe in prayers. I wish you all the best mariacecilia!
@nanboo (17)
25 Sep 10
I dont believe that. If there is the one for every person then what if this one doesnt live in the same country you do? Should we travel the world and put ours lives on hold just to find him/ her? What if we never do find them? It just dose not make any sence to me. There is billions of people live on earth, and if for every person there is one true love how one earth they'll find each other??. If you are happy with someone then stop searching and just be happy.
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@fey008 (295)
• Indonesia
29 Sep 10
Of course I believe True Love.... I am sure, it's so hard to find and need a long time to find them. look at your around, Finding them by your deep heart not by your eyes... Hope you will find soon...
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• Philippines
25 Sep 10
I understand what you are going through and I have been there myself. Yes dear true love waits... I dunno what your faith is but per experience I have learned to wait on the Lord until He leads the right one to me. Try and read What to Do Until Love Finds You by Michelle McKinney Hammond it's a good book and suited for us single women lol.
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• India
25 Sep 10
i will ask you a question..... how will you what is the definition of true love to you? .....i think it is the good understanding between partners.
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@louie847 (350)
• Philippines
25 Sep 10
I had once thought that when can I find someone that I can truly love and loves me back. So, I did look and search for someone but time has been cruel and opportunity fades as it comes near. I had my heart broken and at one point, I said to myself that I wont search or look for someone for me because I know God will give someone that is right for me. I know that He has plans and someone that destined to be at my side throughout life. Now, that person came. I did not look for love but she came as God planned for me. Well, all I can just say that true love can wait. And sometimes we get blinded to see that they are just near us or to numb to feel that they care for us. Love is patient and Hope. So, don't ever think that you will never find someone for you.
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